@lanodan @sampo @hj I like that last line as an analogy a lot lol

You are right, the best way to lead is by example. If you can show a person that your way is superior, that's the most effective thing you can do. I used to think that FOSS had it hard in this regard since the difference isn't immediately obvious to a grandma, but honestly in the modern day you could probably just show someone fedi vs twitter and let them see how much faster things load and how there aren't ads and shit everywhere, or show someone the difference between (for example) Newpipe and Streamfab and let them behold how one of them is a slow laggy janky piece of garbage that begs for your money, opens popups and otherwise behaves like trash, and the other one is fast, lightweight, immediate, and skips ads.