@Doll @DiamondMind @dcc @Terry @j @pernia @Sui @hymentearer @thebitchisback @0 @syzygy @degen @captain_arepa If you are ten years old and a pickup truck arrives in your driveway and your mom drags you and your brother out of bed and then gives you both snowshovels and drinks lemonade while watching you and your brother empty the truck onto her rose bushes, you will remember that smell for the rest of your days. Horse shit baking in the bed of a beat-up F150 on a humid August day. Her rose bushes looked amazing.

(Lady was pulling 12-hour shifts at the hospital, so she wasn't lazy or anything, but when you are 10 and you don't *see* the 12-hour shift and you don't know what a 12-hour shift really looks like, and all you see is her drinking lemonade on the porch while you move half a ton of horse shit, she will appear lazy to you and you will complain that you do all the work.)