@Tony @J @gav @LostShakerOfSalt @tyler @Floydian_Psychology @HyperboreanWave @vic >it's the mans responsibility to lead the women and if she's behaving badly its the mans fault for not teaching her.
This is partially true, but it denies women of any agency (something our society loves to do) and is an incomplete answer. The best dude in the world can still have a bad wife, and vice versa. There is, spiritually, a responsibility of the man to lead his wife as head of household. When he fails, it falls to the woman and you end up with a higher degree of problems normally associated with single motherhood. This is different from the "MEN NEED TO STEP UP AND YOU'RE AWFUL" Christian (often Baptists*, no hate just facts) who CONVENIENTLY leave out the part about men as the head of household and what stewardship actually means.