I picked my mate. Blonde, blue eyes for days. Hard worker. I was head over heels. Fast forward a few yrs. A guy on his site introduced him to meth. I did everything I could to help bring him back from that. Everything. But when his addiction put our son at risk, I had to leave. That was several years ago. I've not dated even once since. I wish nothing but the best for him. He's been doing better recently and I'll always be supportive. He's a White man and we are in a drug crisis in the states. We need to fix that.