If having more than one wife would solve the aforementioned issues and all the strong willed "alpha/sigma" men could/would take them under their wings and lead them with all love and sincerity in Christ. I would have precisely zero issue with that.

Christians as a whole really need to critically examine what they believe because we frankly kick against some of the stuff our ancestors did and knew to be true and right all because pastor so and so down the road said it was bad/good.

And look at where it's got us.

The curses of in Deuteronomy are real and they are upon us almost word for word right this moment. Why?