@NoFlexZone @jenigrant @mekkaokereke
to be honest it's hard to even parse the basis of what they are saying because every time someone tried to follow the logic with them, they or some other white person would just claim they aren't allowed to dispute deadnaming for some bullshit reason.
Either they're cis, or they haven't been out for long enough to have a say, or they're TME, etc etc etc
It's obvious they have no clue about why any colonized person would do anything. Typical white queer trying to use their queerness to shut down any conversation about race because it makes them uncomfortable and then getting mad that the Black person won't just obey and shut up. Just another day on fedi.