@dictatordave @givenup @Nazareno I hear you and I know you weren't directing that at me. I was trying to remind you that honesty without sensitivity can be brutality without using that phrase. IRL any of my friends could tell me to man up and quit being a bitch and I've done the same to them when needed. Online when people can't hear your voice, everything comes across as whatever the reader thinks, and sometimes it's hard to tell who is being a bro or an enemy with stuff like this, if that makes sense.