"ABS route of forcing them to conform"--You are saying that the standard method of including children with autism spectrum disorders in class is to make them do things like any of the others, despite their neurodivergence?!?
"Remington doesn't like this because parents who've missed the window might feel bad"--ludicrous, in fact
"Ditto to whether or not the IWT is 100% +ive about Autism." Could you rephrase this, please?