> but if I didn't have a good woman I'd probably hate every second of every day

Yeah, it used to be young men and women grew up together, led by their faithful parents or spiritual community. Now, feminism has made it that the man must grow up first and become strong enough to tame the curse of Eve so she can grow up too, all without spiritual community because everyone is godless now. And then they can start a family. It's tough out there.