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>Well first off I wouldn't let any of my personal data get linked to me when I'm runni mg a controversial website. Barring that, I wouldn't complain in public. I'd contact the authorities (if the threat is credible) and stay mum on the topic.

Graf was doxed because his gf snitched him (and this is why I laughed at Cassidy when she thought it was important I meet a girl on the fedi or tell her about my fedi life) and because he kept a continuity of info from his time as a Twitter shitposter. And when he started poa.st, he didn't actually anticipate it would be controversial. He kept the door open to everyone and anyone. And to be fair, it still is.

I don't know about his mother or how she got doxed though. So all the stuff about Graf's opsec is especially redundant.

>Graf is making himself an entertaining target by talking about how much all this bothers him, he's getting people who aren't involved and wouldn't normally give a fuck laughing at him. The thing with someone showing up at his mom's house with a knife-- he'a plying it for sympathy and, except for with people who already know him and are his friends, badly miscalculating. He just looks histrionic. If somebody knows nothing else about you, if you show them this kind of weakness they'll just have contempt for you.

Except he isn't. He didn't make an issue of Eris' fedposting when it initially happened because he knew what the response would be. That's also why I kept the screenshots to myself until now and I already know what you know about those screenshots. You don't actually know how much shit Graf doesn't talk about when people go and claim the worst about him. Case in point... I thought that NEETzsche had a legitimate grievance with Graf until I saw that he was omitting important pieces about the order events regarding NEET getting blocked and Graf crediting him for creating scheduling.

Graf Derangement Syndrome or Poast Derangement Syndrme is real. Let's not pretend it isn't. It's nothing to do with Graf's actions as an admin. Nobody harasses Thor or Shebang or the people at absturztaube or expired.mentality.rip or Moon to the extent they do Graf.

>I'm not saying it justifiable or right in any way, or that he deserves any of this. I'm just saying this is how people are. Having an intuitive sense for that could save him a lot of grief.

It doesn't fucking matter. A-logs will be retarded a-logs. Narcissists will be narcissists. And insincere synthetic right-wingers will be insincere. And all of them will hate on Graf no matter what he does. I don't care about rehabilitating Graf to any of these cocksuckers. I'm also not interested in entertaining there's some ideal better "way" Graf can go about navigating this pit of vipers from concern trolling faggots that don't have a real answer. Especially when it's all predicated on some retarded notion the fediverse is "fair." I'm just posting what I know for the people out there unsure of what to make of this.