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anime graf mays ?️? (graf@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 01:25:50 JST anime graf mays ?️? its with heavy heart that im letting everyone know we are defederationg from hidamari.apartments because it's admin is okay with reposting an individual (charfuhrer) who he defederated from poast for sending child porn to people in dm -
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堅実 :njp: (vsolid@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 01:25:50 JST 堅実 :njp: @graf >Make post about that instance being full of annoying faggots
>Graf defederates a day later
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anime graf mays ?️? (graf@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 02:20:33 JST anime graf mays ?️? @glacierglider1 @josh eris, a guy on the kiwifarms instance keeps trying to sell my moms information to people. i wont ask crunk or josh to deal with it because "lol" but yeah she's had people come to her house armed -
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J上校(警长)? (colonelj@kiwifarms.cc)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 02:20:33 JST J上校(警长)? @graf @josh @glacierglider1 is this true @Eris ? you're trying to get their mum killed? graf is trying to drysnitch you. -
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(mint@ryona.agency)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 02:20:33 JST @colonelj @Eris @josh @glacierglider1 @graf You judge for yourself if that constitues as a threat.
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THE NUGGER TECHNOCRACY? (glacierglider1@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 02:20:36 JST THE NUGGER TECHNOCRACY? -
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anime graf mays ?️? (graf@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 02:20:37 JST anime graf mays ?️? @josh this guy was the first person to ban ANYONE on poast, he was the first one to defederate anyone -- and it was the guy he reposted. for child porn -
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anime graf mays ?️? (graf@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 02:20:37 JST anime graf mays ?️? @josh so he was a poast admin back in like early 2021 -- s8n, the guy who made an instance because his friend was banned for threatning "if i have to pull this car over and post child porn i will"
the admin, wides, argued that he didnt think what s8n was doing to poast was detrimental to poast and its users so i removed him quietly
he went on his way and made his own instance and it was fine, he tucked into the tranny discussions with eris (both the schizo tranny who tried to have poast taken down and the one you host who tried to have my mom killed)
now he's reposting the child porn fiend he banned on poast
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Josh (josh@kiwifarms.cc)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 02:20:38 JST Josh the link is real and one day the fedi will realize it -
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J上校(警长)? (colonelj@kiwifarms.cc)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 02:39:53 JST J上校(警长)? @BlinkRape @Eris @josh @glacierglider1 @graf @mint wonder what's making them them so tarded today. -
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(mint@ryona.agency)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 02:39:53 JST @colonelj @Eris @josh @glacierglider1 @graf @BlinkRape crack -
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Ethical Pedophile (blinkrape@posting.lolicon.rocks)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 02:39:54 JST Ethical Pedophile @colonelj @Eris @josh @glacierglider1 @graf @mint why kill someone when you can eternally call them at random hours and yell JEW into the phone -
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J上校(警长)? (colonelj@kiwifarms.cc)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 02:39:55 JST J上校(警长)? graf just soundingike a punk bitch as per usual :shrug_yui: -
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J上校(警长)? (colonelj@kiwifarms.cc)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 02:39:55 JST J上校(警长)? @mint @Eris @josh @glacierglider1 @graf "eris is literally trying to get my mum killed" :ablobrollingeyes: -
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PonyPanda (ponypanda@freespeechextremist.com)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 02:53:23 JST PonyPanda @colonelj @Eris @glacierglider1 @graf @josh @mint
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(mint@ryona.agency)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 03:02:36 JST @PonyPanda @bajax @Eris @colonelj @josh @glacierglider1 @graf Not defederating someone and making a scene because of repost of reply to already deactivated user would be a good start. -
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bajax (bajax@bajax.us)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 03:02:37 JST bajax @PonyPanda @Eris @colonelj @josh @glacierglider1 @graf @mint Sorry to say this, I don't dislike Graf, but he's handling that situation in all the wrong ways. Internet crazies are always going to exist, but him letting them know he's irritated, distressed and/or inconvenienced by any of this is just chumming the water. -
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PonyPanda (ponypanda@freespeechextremist.com)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 03:02:37 JST PonyPanda @bajax @Eris @colonelj @glacierglider1 @graf @josh @mint
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J上校(警长)? (colonelj@kiwifarms.cc)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 03:09:07 JST J上校(警长)? @PonyPanda @Eris @josh @glacierglider1 @graf @mint vordrak isn't a violent guy and I'm pretty certain graf's mum isn't in hospice -
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J上校(警长)? (colonelj@kiwifarms.cc)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 03:09:08 JST J上校(警长)? @PonyPanda @Eris @josh @glacierglider1 @graf @mint -
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PonyPanda (ponypanda@freespeechextremist.com)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 03:09:09 JST PonyPanda @colonelj @Eris @glacierglider1 @graf @josh @mint
Well it's great that you think so highly of them. I'm not sure what an outsider is meant to make of this.
Don't you have a gunt to guard and some people to chastise for letting the online bullying escalate to a real life assault? -
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bajax (bajax@bajax.us)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 03:12:41 JST bajax @PonyPanda @Eris @colonelj @josh @glacierglider1 @graf @mint Well first off I wouldn't let any of my personal data get linked to me when I'm runni mg a controversial website. Barring that, I wouldn't complain in public. I'd contact the authorities (if the threat is credible) and stay mum on the topic.
Graf is making himself an entertaining target by talking about how much all this bothers him, he's getting people who aren't involved and wouldn't normally give a fuck laughing at him. The thing with someone showing up at his mom's house with a knife-- he'a plying it for sympathy and, except for with people who already know him and are his friends, badly miscalculating. He just looks histrionic. If somebody knows nothing else about you, if you show them this kind of weakness they'll just have contempt for you.
I'm not saying it justifiable or right in any way, or that he deserves any of this. I'm just saying this is how people are. Having an intuitive sense for that could save him a lot of grief. likes this. -
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bajax (bajax@bajax.us)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 04:27:47 JST bajax @PonyPanda @Eris @colonelj @josh @glacierglider1 @graf @mint What compelled me to write my response in the first place is seeing people I know who have nothing to do with the situation and no reason to care having a hearty laugh at graf for writing about what happened with his mother. The contempt is spreading. The only locus of control, as far as I can tell, is with Graf himself. Unless we want to appeal to federal authorities or something else. This is schoolyard time, this is african savannah time. You well know THEY can't be reasoned with.
My hope for posting this, besides something to do with *logos*, is that people understand WHY this shit is happening, and that maybe as a result it can happen less.
I have sympathy for Graf, I really do, I got bullied in middle school and that's exactly what this shitshow reminds me of. Pure compassion won't solve the problem long term. It just seems to rob you of any sense or control. "Why is this happening to ME?"
I don't know. Take or reject. I'm not concern trolling here, I'm just trying to help shit make more sense. likes this. -
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PonyPanda (ponypanda@freespeechextremist.com)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 04:27:48 JST PonyPanda @bajax @Eris @colonelj @glacierglider1 @graf @josh @mint
>Well first off I wouldn't let any of my personal data get linked to me when I'm runni mg a controversial website. Barring that, I wouldn't complain in public. I'd contact the authorities (if the threat is credible) and stay mum on the topic.
Graf was doxed because his gf snitched him (and this is why I laughed at Cassidy when she thought it was important I meet a girl on the fedi or tell her about my fedi life) and because he kept a continuity of info from his time as a Twitter shitposter. And when he started poa.st, he didn't actually anticipate it would be controversial. He kept the door open to everyone and anyone. And to be fair, it still is.
I don't know about his mother or how she got doxed though. So all the stuff about Graf's opsec is especially redundant.
>Graf is making himself an entertaining target by talking about how much all this bothers him, he's getting people who aren't involved and wouldn't normally give a fuck laughing at him. The thing with someone showing up at his mom's house with a knife-- he'a plying it for sympathy and, except for with people who already know him and are his friends, badly miscalculating. He just looks histrionic. If somebody knows nothing else about you, if you show them this kind of weakness they'll just have contempt for you.
Except he isn't. He didn't make an issue of Eris' fedposting when it initially happened because he knew what the response would be. That's also why I kept the screenshots to myself until now and I already know what you know about those screenshots. You don't actually know how much shit Graf doesn't talk about when people go and claim the worst about him. Case in point... I thought that NEETzsche had a legitimate grievance with Graf until I saw that he was omitting important pieces about the order events regarding NEET getting blocked and Graf crediting him for creating scheduling.
Graf Derangement Syndrome or Poast Derangement Syndrme is real. Let's not pretend it isn't. It's nothing to do with Graf's actions as an admin. Nobody harasses Thor or Shebang or the people at absturztaube or expired.mentality.rip or Moon to the extent they do Graf.
>I'm not saying it justifiable or right in any way, or that he deserves any of this. I'm just saying this is how people are. Having an intuitive sense for that could save him a lot of grief.
It doesn't fucking matter. A-logs will be retarded a-logs. Narcissists will be narcissists. And insincere synthetic right-wingers will be insincere. And all of them will hate on Graf no matter what he does. I don't care about rehabilitating Graf to any of these cocksuckers. I'm also not interested in entertaining there's some ideal better "way" Graf can go about navigating this pit of vipers from concern trolling faggots that don't have a real answer. Especially when it's all predicated on some retarded notion the fediverse is "fair." I'm just posting what I know for the people out there unsure of what to make of this. -
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PonyPanda (ponypanda@freespeechextremist.com)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 04:41:47 JST PonyPanda @bajax @Eris @colonelj @glacierglider1 @graf @josh @mint
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(mint@ryona.agency)'s status on Saturday, 20-Aug-2022 04:41:52 JST @PonyPanda @bajax @Eris @colonelj @josh @glacierglider1 @graf That explains a lot.
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