@lxo
> now let's think of a trans woman who is small and not particularly strong.  does such a woman deserve a safe space?  or is she not worthy of it?  is she under a lower risk of violence in a men's space, in a women's space, or in a shared space?

Following this logic, if a man is small and not particularly strong, the only way for him to feel safe is to identify as a woman (become a transwoman) and use women's space
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