I was going by what taylan highlighted from the article. I probably wouldn't have come to such definitions myself, because I don't even reason about it in such binary terms. in neurodivergence we talk about spectrum, in which various distinct features may be present, each in a continuum of different intensities. that fits in with my personal notions of gender expressions as well, in that it's more aligned with the virtually infinite diversity in nature and, more specifically, in human experience. I don't feel this need to force-fit people into categories that aren't even well defined; accepting it as a spectrum of continua is not only less demanding and more relaxing to me, but more in line with my more general perception of macroscopic reality

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