Bot declining was weird, for me you're the closest to what seal.cafe / kf.cc were. Just very hands off, not really looking to build a specific culture and just be a chill place in general.

That's all I want out of an instance :P

I like NC and shit but joining huge instances with established "like this person and hate this person" doesn't necessarily appeal. Not that I blame anyone for that, that's just a natural part of larger communities