RE: https://wandering.shop/@xgranade/116764432226058529
So, about in-band and out-of-band signaling.
Suppose you're busy inventing the telephone, and you decide to do so by connecting a wire for your microphone to your friend's speaker and vice versa.
That takes connecting your side directly to theirs, but it works.
Now you want to call *two* people with your fancy new invention, so you change the wires out of your phone to end in a plug, and have your two friends do the same.
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