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snacks (snacks@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 00:26:30 JST
snacks
So, is ccc just becoming a kink meetup? - kaia likes this.
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sampo (sampo@pleroma.soykaf.com)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 00:30:34 JST
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@snacks I see pictures that people post and I think they all went there to suck dicks not look at computers -
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snacks (snacks@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 00:32:33 JST
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@sampo yeah, thatcs more and more the vibe i'm getting the last 3 or so years. Idk if it's just because i'm mutuals with different people or an actual change kaia likes this. -
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EmoDagda (dagda@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 00:44:20 JST
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@snacks
Chaos Anti-Sex League when?snacks likes this. -
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snacks (snacks@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 00:44:59 JST
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@dagda becoming what i swore to defeat... a puritan -
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EmoDagda (dagda@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 00:50:43 JST
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"They pushed me that far"snacks likes this. -
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Malibu Sunrise (malibusunrise@linfan.moe)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 00:58:47 JST
Malibu Sunrise
@dagda @snacks
sorry to drop this truthnuclear bomb here but
its only because there's too many nerds that dont get laid enough or are hypersexual and because those nerds are too unable to plan and organize their own sex conventions they corrupt the ones that are of the common interestsnacks likes this.mischievoustomato repeated this. -
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snacks (snacks@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 01:00:49 JST
snacks
@MalibuSunrise @dagda ok, state mandated gf it is then -
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mischievoustomato@0.5dollah.click's status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 01:12:45 JST
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@snacks @MalibuSunrise @dagda hell yeah
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snacks (snacks@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 18:51:24 JST
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@MalibuSunrise @nicolewd @dagda afaik there's also usually (been?) a meetup for that kinda stuff organized seperately but close by and at the same time as ccc -
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Malibu Sunrise (malibusunrise@linfan.moe)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 18:51:25 JST
Malibu Sunrise
@nicolewd @dagda @snacks measured by necessity, the hotel rooms of people can be completely enough on most cases is what i think -
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Nicolewd (🔜39C3☎️LEWD) (nicolewd@girlcock.club)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 18:51:26 JST
Nicolewd (🔜39C3☎️LEWD)
@MalibuSunrise @dagda @snacks it sounded like a "people should stop doing that" instead of a "we should have facilities and measures in place to make sure no one enters by accident and let people have fun if they want to".
Like a dedicated, easy to clean darkroom in the basement or so.. where you can go if you have the urge - but i.e. kids could never get there by accident. -
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Malibu Sunrise (malibusunrise@linfan.moe)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 18:51:27 JST
Malibu Sunrise
@nicolewd @dagda @snacks
do we even disagree on something then?
or is it just about my tone? -
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Nicolewd (🔜39C3☎️LEWD) (nicolewd@girlcock.club)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 18:51:28 JST
Nicolewd (🔜39C3☎️LEWD)
@MalibuSunrise @dagda @snacks no. I say that when there are people, then there will be things happening. If you want it or not.
Either there are ways to make it safe and avoidable for people who don't want to get involved in it - or people will get involuntarily involved in things by "catching" others.
Be it having sex on the toilet, finding a dark corner, or whatever.
You cannot control people in that way, so make a space for that which those who are bothered can avoid. -
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Malibu Sunrise (malibusunrise@linfan.moe)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 18:51:29 JST
Malibu Sunrise
@nicolewd @dagda @snacks so your answer to my worldview that there should be more sex and cruising events so that ppl can focus on non sex events too is to count off sex events and say
"yeah no, i still want this to be my place to get into queer hookups?"
from what I gathered talking to a lot of asexual people is that this ultra horny/ hypersexual behavior that protrudes even through events that are mainly for being a queer computer nerds is a thing that makes them feel alienated.
so no, i dont have anything against crusing events, i even think thats the best way to get laid safely
but if i really wanna get crabs, scabs and lice
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Nicolewd (🔜39C3☎️LEWD) (nicolewd@girlcock.club)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 18:51:30 JST
Nicolewd (🔜39C3☎️LEWD)
@MalibuSunrise @dagda @snacks nah. What about Aachen flinta cruising? What about the new years orgy? And all other things?
Just because SOME people have less sex than a normal amount you should not force that worldview onto others.
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Malibu Sunrise (malibusunrise@linfan.moe)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 19:00:12 JST
Malibu Sunrise
@snacks @nicolewd @dagda you wanna know what i think? what i really think? :femjoker:
people are too soft, they wanna have their darkroom, their sex space, where they get a nice temperature rooms and a fucking snackbar to refuel after you chocked on 2 dicks
(wouldn't happen to me, im a professional)
the event grounds? that's the place for talks and nerding, not fucking, go into the public park, the subway whatever.
"OHHhH but its so cold" shut UP
your genitals wont freeze off if you're using them
the sheer entitlement those people have because they fuck, the one thing thats biologically programmed with organs into us.
if you wanna fuck that bad, show me youre serious, fuck in a lost place, in a fast food bathroom
then come crying to me about darkrooms
WHEN YOU'VE EARNED IT
all pepole today are entitled little crybabies
that's not what i fuck forsnacks likes this. -
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Malibu Sunrise (malibusunrise@linfan.moe)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 19:05:39 JST
Malibu Sunrise
@nicolewd @dagda @snacks you wanna know what i think? what i really think? :femjoker:
people are too soft, they wanna have their darkroom, their sex space, where they get a nice temperature rooms and a fucking snackbar to refuel after you chocked on 2 dicks
(wouldn't happen to me, im a professional)
the event grounds? that's the place for talks and nerding, not fucking, go into the public park, the subway whatever.
"OHHhH but its so cold" shut UP
your genitals wont freeze off if you're using them
the sheer entitlement those people have because they fuck, the one thing thats biologically programmed with organs into us.
if you wanna fuck that bad, show me youre serious, fuck in a lost place, in a fast food bathroom
then come crying to me about darkrooms
WHEN YOU'VE EARNED IT
all pepole today are entitled little crybabies
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Nicolewd (🔜39C3☎️LEWD) (nicolewd@girlcock.club)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 19:05:40 JST
Nicolewd (🔜39C3☎️LEWD)
@MalibuSunrise @dagda @snacks nope, they aren't enough. And that is not inclusive.
You can't say "be yourself", "all creatures welcome" and then say "unless ..."
Hotel rooms have issues with safety. I don't have an angel at the door, I don't have 110/112/113 available on DECT, ..
A hotel room is fine for a foursome with people you know - but not with strangers.
I still don't get your issue with people being and expressing themselves?snacks repeated this. -
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victim of woke cancel culture 🏳️⚧️ (firingsquadsenjoyer@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 21:46:41 JST
victim of woke cancel culture 🏳️⚧️
@nicolewd @MalibuSunrise @dagda @snacks literally insane to get drawn into maldreplying this many times to "it's impolite to turn every con into a sexcon" then turn around and accuse the other person of being mad. snacks likes this. -
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Nicolewd (🔜39C3☎️LEWD) (nicolewd@girlcock.club)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 21:46:43 JST
Nicolewd (🔜39C3☎️LEWD)
@MalibuSunrise @dagda @snacks nope. I just see the rage you speak around because other people just want a space for their special pentesting. 🤷♀️
I'm not the one bitching about anything. I just want good accommodations for all needs. Sex included. -
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Malibu Sunrise (malibusunrise@linfan.moe)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 21:46:44 JST
Malibu Sunrise
@nicolewd @dagda @snacks
you need to assume that im some hateful ass who doesn't ever softly gaze into a womans eyes for your argument to work -
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Malibu Sunrise (malibusunrise@linfan.moe)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 21:46:45 JST
Malibu Sunrise
@nicolewd @dagda @snacks
yeah and youre not fucking, you're just being gay nerds? i dont care about that, have fun -
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Nicolewd (🔜39C3☎️LEWD) (nicolewd@girlcock.club)'s status on Monday, 29-Dec-2025 21:46:46 JST
Nicolewd (🔜39C3☎️LEWD)
@MalibuSunrise @dagda @snacks haha.. it's not all about the sex.. 🙄
I already made out with a cutie on a couch, then talked an hour about astrophysics.. or explained recursion schemes to them before getting closer.
It is just a normal part of life, happening to normal people.Who hurt you so much that you aren't letting fellow nerds have a good time? Are you just insecure and trying to hide it? I don't get it why you want to regulate what other people do 🤷♀️