@nicolewd @dagda @snacks so your answer to my worldview that there should be more sex and cruising events so that ppl can focus on non sex events too is to count off sex events and say
"yeah no, i still want this to be my place to get into queer hookups?"
from what I gathered talking to a lot of asexual people is that this ultra horny/ hypersexual behavior that protrudes even through events that are mainly for being a queer computer nerds is a thing that makes them feel alienated.
so no, i dont have anything against crusing events, i even think thats the best way to get laid safely
but if i really wanna get crabs, scabs and lice
then i go to entropia