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    Kevin Davy (pathfinder@beige.party)'s status on Wednesday, 16-Jul-2025 02:02:51 JST Kevin Davy Kevin Davy

    A word to those of you who might be new, or thinking about following me.

    Whilst this place obviously runs on algorithms, it doesn't have one to push content onto your timeline. To this end, this place is all about being active. You have to go out and find the content you want. In terms of following the accounts of those whose posts you want to see and also in terms of following the various hashtags that interest you. There are also groups, who solely boost anything posted that tags them, such as @actuallyautistic a group for all autistics and even those who think they might be and not just those officially diagnosed. Follow enough of these things and your timeline can quickly fill, with all that interests you.

    However, this is an ongoing process. People come and go. The nature of what they post might vary and no longer interest you. For this reason, unfollowing someone is not a cardinal sin here. Unlike other places, where how many people following you determines your reach, here it really doesn't do anything. Other than affect the quality of your engagement and how many boosts, which do determine reach, and favourites any given post of yours may have.

    There are also, always, new people you might want to follow. Or new hashtags that you become aware of that interest you. In fact, over time, you can quite easily end up with an unmanageable timeline. Learning how to use lists, can help you here, separating your various interests into more manageable chunks. You can also hide the boosts of anyone you follow, so that you only see their posts, but not the huge amount of other stuff they might be prone to boosting. But, even with these things, there may come a time when you realise that something has to give and that you can't follow everything. Or, that what you are following is not quite right and that you may need to refresh everything with new follows.

    It is, as I said, an ongoing and active process being on here. Both of weeding out the old, or unwanted, and in tending the new. It therefore requires an amount of constant work that puts some people off this place, but which, for most of us, is the beauty of it, once you get the hang of it.

    To that end, I therefore do not automatically follow back everyone who follows me. It may be a trick people have learnt in other places and even considered good behaviour because of that. But, as I've explained, it doesn't do much here, where it's all about managing and curating your own timeline. So, if I don't follow back, please don't take offence. I, almost exclusively, wander the #autism spaces and simply like my timeline filled accordingly.

    In conversation about a year ago from beige.party permalink
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      Miakoda (hellomiakoda@pdx.social)'s status on Sunday, 08-Mar-2026 00:34:27 JST Miakoda Miakoda
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      • JamesWNeal
      • Dianora (Diane Bruce)

      @Dianora @JamesWNeal @pathfinder @actuallyautistic@a.gup.pe I find that the more an ad tries to insist I need something, the more sus I am that it's shit.

      All my electronics purchases are a long period of deliberation and research. My PS5 was purchased despite income being unreliable at the time because it's positive impact of being my strongest interest improves the liklihood I can navigate the income situation. I was right.

      In conversation about 4 months ago permalink
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      Dianora (Diane Bruce) (dianora@ottawa.place)'s status on Sunday, 08-Mar-2026 00:34:29 JST Dianora (Diane Bruce) Dianora (Diane Bruce)
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      • JamesWNeal

      @JamesWNeal @pathfinder @actuallyautistic Yes I saw this one months ago. There was also this one

      https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-fallible-mind/201708/why-advertising-falls-flat-in-individuals-autism

      In conversation about 4 months ago permalink

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        Why Advertising Falls Flat in Individuals With Autism
        Individuals with autism may be impervious to misleading marketing.
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      Dianora (Diane Bruce) (dianora@ottawa.place)'s status on Sunday, 08-Mar-2026 00:34:30 JST Dianora (Diane Bruce) Dianora (Diane Bruce)
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      • JamesWNeal

      @JamesWNeal @pathfinder @actuallyautistic https://psychcentral.com/autism/why-people-with-autism-are-more-logical#autism-and-logical-thinking
      I always stress autism has always been seen through the lens of NT folx which views ASD as a disorder and not a difference.

      In conversation about 4 months ago permalink

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        What to Know About Autism and Logical Thinking
        from Nancy Lovering
        Some research suggests that there's a link between autism and logical thinking. Here's what we know.
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      JamesWNeal (jameswneal@mstdn.social)'s status on Sunday, 08-Mar-2026 00:34:33 JST JamesWNeal JamesWNeal
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      • Dianora (Diane Bruce)

      @Dianora @pathfinder @actuallyautistic Normally, I'd be saying, "I'm so old, I remember . . ." but this time I have to say, "I'm so young I had to look up 'NT people.'" but having done that - yes.

      In conversation about 4 months ago permalink
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      Dianora (Diane Bruce) (dianora@ottawa.place)'s status on Sunday, 08-Mar-2026 00:34:34 JST Dianora (Diane Bruce) Dianora (Diane Bruce)
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      • JamesWNeal

      @pathfinder @JamesWNeal @actuallyautistic I am always shocked at how illogical NT people are.

      In conversation about 4 months ago permalink
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      Kevin Davy (pathfinder@beige.party)'s status on Sunday, 08-Mar-2026 00:34:35 JST Kevin Davy Kevin Davy
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      • JamesWNeal

      @JamesWNeal @actuallyautistic
      "I thought it was just me."
      Almost certainly the one realisation that we all have, over and over again.
      Often tied in with "but I don't - insert autistic trait here-" only to realise that yes you do, just in ways that you're so used to that you don't think about them that way. Or because you mask them so well, even you don't notice.
      Confidence and belief in yourself comes not just from the validation of realising you're not alone, but also that it's perfectly natural and good.

      In conversation about 4 months ago permalink
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      JamesWNeal (jameswneal@mstdn.social)'s status on Sunday, 08-Mar-2026 00:34:36 JST JamesWNeal JamesWNeal
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      @pathfinder @actuallyautistic Suddenly, sitting in my chair, I realized I wasn't "moving." I was enjoying music and my arms were completely at rest. I checked - they still moved fine, but it was as if for the first time there was an off switch. Moving from the SSRI to generic Wellbutrin took away just enough of that "finally at rest" reaction for me to know what let it happen. The SSRI was like taking a vacation from myself. Stepping outside was helpful, but "not me."

      In conversation about 4 months ago permalink
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      JamesWNeal (jameswneal@mstdn.social)'s status on Sunday, 08-Mar-2026 00:34:39 JST JamesWNeal JamesWNeal
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      @pathfinder @actuallyautistic Kevin, I agree. But finding people like you, whether its some commonality in how our brains work, or in any aspect of our lives is crucial I think, if one is missing solid self acceptance. Finally seeing "I'm not the only one like this, or stuggling with that, or living this way," can bring a bit of peace to a jumbled up life.

      Short story. I swore I didn't "fidget." Right up to the moment the SSRI kicked in. 1/2

      In conversation about 4 months ago permalink
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      Kevin Davy (pathfinder@beige.party)'s status on Sunday, 08-Mar-2026 00:34:40 JST Kevin Davy Kevin Davy
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      • JamesWNeal

      @JamesWNeal @actuallyautistic
      We are in many ways very different from one another. And yet there is always a resonance in the stories others tell, that just isn't there elsewhere.
      What we can learn and get from those stories may vary. But the underlying story that we are no longer alone always rings out.
      We learn and gain more from each other, than we ever can from some outsider.

      In conversation about 4 months ago permalink
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      JamesWNeal (jameswneal@mstdn.social)'s status on Sunday, 08-Mar-2026 00:34:42 JST JamesWNeal JamesWNeal
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      @pathfinder @actuallyautistic Kevin, I just finished working my way through this thread. I'd say one of the first things a person can do if they have any reason whatsoever to think they might be #autistic is to read the accounts of others. Your thread's certainly been a good starting point for me.

      In conversation about 4 months ago permalink
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      Miakoda (hellomiakoda@pdx.social)'s status on Sunday, 08-Mar-2026 02:56:49 JST Miakoda Miakoda
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      • JamesWNeal
      • Dianora (Diane Bruce)

      @pathfinder @Dianora @JamesWNeal Yes! If you see me buy something with no thought, it's a repeat purchase and you can be sure it's something I already know is decent.

      In conversation about 4 months ago permalink
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      Kevin Davy (pathfinder@beige.party)'s status on Sunday, 08-Mar-2026 02:56:51 JST Kevin Davy Kevin Davy
      in reply to
      • Miakoda
      • JamesWNeal
      • Dianora (Diane Bruce)

      @hellomiakoda @Dianora @JamesWNeal
      Almost all purchases for me, involve a long battle to justify them and to make sure I have the one I want.

      In conversation about 4 months ago permalink
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      Miakoda (hellomiakoda@pdx.social)'s status on Sunday, 08-Mar-2026 03:03:31 JST Miakoda Miakoda
      in reply to
      • JamesWNeal
      • Dianora (Diane Bruce)

      @pathfinder @Dianora @JamesWNeal My kensignton trackball is one. It dies, a new one goes in the cart same day.

      In conversation about 4 months ago permalink
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      Kevin Davy (pathfinder@beige.party)'s status on Sunday, 08-Mar-2026 03:03:33 JST Kevin Davy Kevin Davy
      in reply to
      • Miakoda
      • JamesWNeal
      • Dianora (Diane Bruce)

      @hellomiakoda @Dianora @JamesWNeal
      Same!

      In conversation about 4 months ago permalink
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      Miakoda (hellomiakoda@pdx.social)'s status on Sunday, 08-Mar-2026 03:06:15 JST Miakoda Miakoda
      in reply to
      • JamesWNeal
      • Dianora (Diane Bruce)

      @pathfinder @Dianora @JamesWNeal The one I have right now is my third one. Though this one is modded with upgraded bearings.

      In conversation about 4 months ago permalink
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      Miakoda (hellomiakoda@pdx.social)'s status on Sunday, 08-Mar-2026 03:12:06 JST Miakoda Miakoda
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      @pathfinder @Dianora @JamesWNeal Yesssssss. Fuck!

      In conversation about 4 months ago permalink
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      Kevin Davy (pathfinder@beige.party)'s status on Sunday, 08-Mar-2026 03:12:07 JST Kevin Davy Kevin Davy
      in reply to
      • Miakoda
      • JamesWNeal
      • Dianora (Diane Bruce)

      @hellomiakoda @Dianora @JamesWNeal
      A pet hate is when they radically change something for the worse, that I rely on and have been able to buy without thought.

      In conversation about 4 months ago permalink

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