He's just afraid of being a father. It's no longer just about them. Notice how he focuses on her being a mother, while he implies he feels trapped being a father (juxtaposition).
Recommendation: She needs to beat the fuck out of and rape correct that man. :wojaks_demon:
@Richard@rubberducky I agree, a real man would use communication lmao how is she supposed to guess how you feel when she’s hardwired to protect and nurture her offspring ffs
At the same time, it’s totally uncool that she’s not checking in with how he’s doing. When does just focusing on your lane become self-centeredness and taking your spouse for granted?
Whenever there’s an issue, resolution is most likely when each side takes as much responsibility as possible for fixing it.
This is why the wife and I had a "date" every week. No kids! No financial shit! Just us discussing us. Without that, I probably would have left. As MountainJay pointed out, we tend to hyper focus on our lanes. It also reminded us why we found each other interesting. Most of us did not watch open communication in our homes. I know I didn't.
@Humpleupagus@MountainJay@Richard@rubberducky communication is essential for any relationship to maintain its health, it’s easy to get caught up in motherhood he needs to man up and express himself to her instead of holding a pity party