@LukeAlmighty interesting, I never really had that issue because when I got yelled at by my mother one time
She said, "you know if you listened you could do whatever you want and we wouldn't have to yell at you all the time.
At that moment a third eye awoken in me and I realized that if I listen and did whatever people told me to do I could then misbehave as much as I wanted to and no one would believe that I did anything wrong.
I pretty much found the cheat code on how to be an asshole and no One believes that you do anything wrong and that you're a perfect angel.
I still do that to this day...