@puppygirlhornypost2@transfem.social @hrefna@hachyderm.io (inb4 I start getting shit for saying this) I have never had any problems for not following fedi meta... I have literally never had to follow it or care about it, and I haven't even defederated many of the affected servers (they tend to defederate themselves by disappearing, not sure if that's good or bad, but yeah)... The only meta I really care about is if some instance has a generalised posting highly illegal shit disease of if something directly afftects me or my sever's users...
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Cody :collar: :verified_paw: (cody@catboy.baby)'s status on Monday, 16-Dec-2024 06:10:40 JST Cody :collar: :verified_paw:
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Hrefna (DHC) (hrefna@hachyderm.io)'s status on Monday, 16-Dec-2024 06:10:39 JST Hrefna (DHC)
This is not the statement you seem to think it is.
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Hrefna (DHC) (hrefna@hachyderm.io)'s status on Monday, 16-Dec-2024 06:18:03 JST Hrefna (DHC)
All I hear is "I never had to worry about if attacks on my peers were meaningful and something requiring followup, or yet another attempt to disparage people like me in online spaces and make spaces unsafe for people like me, where acting on the allegations will embolden and empower and play into the hands of those who want to eliminate me from society."
Not surprising that others have different experiences when that's the backdrop.
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Cody :collar: :verified_paw: (cody@catboy.baby)'s status on Monday, 16-Dec-2024 06:18:04 JST Cody :collar: :verified_paw:
@hrefna@hachyderm.io @puppygirlhornypost2@transfem.social I don't know what this means but what I'm trying to state is your experience doesn't seem to apply to everyone. Either way, you seem hostile so I'll... uhm... slowly go hide in a corner and try not to cause any trouble ><
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Hrefna (DHC) (hrefna@hachyderm.io)'s status on Monday, 16-Dec-2024 06:44:41 JST Hrefna (DHC)
"You push yourself too hard when it comes to trying to understand what is happening to others in your marginalized group" is, again, not the take I think you are intending here.
I know you don't mean it that way, I get it, but I would like you to think about that framing
Also at a guess I have been moderating longer than some of the people involved in these conversations have been alive, and whataboutism with others (BlueSky) not under discussion is rarely useful
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Cody :collar: :verified_paw: (cody@catboy.baby)'s status on Monday, 16-Dec-2024 06:44:43 JST Cody :collar: :verified_paw:
@hrefna@hachyderm.io @puppygirlhornypost2@transfem.social I do think you push yourselves too hard though... Bluesky and other centrally moderated netowrks (because let's be honest, most users only use the default moderation on bsky anyway), are MUCH worse at moderation than you all are, and they mostly don't give two shits about whether someone is a predator or not unless they're either literally convicted or do something illegal on the platform...
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Cody :collar: :verified_paw: (cody@catboy.baby)'s status on Monday, 16-Dec-2024 06:44:44 JST Cody :collar: :verified_paw:
@hrefna@hachyderm.io @puppygirlhornypost2@transfem.social I think my message was more in line with "fediverse moderation was designed to be applied on an instance basis, and trying to make the entire network care about what's happening in your instance isn't necessarily productive".
I do not know Asten or whatever their name is. If they were to become a problem for my instance I would defederate them. They haven't as of yet, so I see no need to be aware of any meta involving them.
But again, I have no moderation experience on larger instances so I have no idea how this applies to y'all... I'm only deciding for like... 8 people who are all 18+... So like I said, I'll shut up and go hide in a corner... maybe it's just my limited experience talking... -
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Hrefna (DHC) (hrefna@hachyderm.io)'s status on Monday, 16-Dec-2024 07:03:38 JST Hrefna (DHC)
I mentioned BlueSky to compare the _search functionality_, not the _moderation system_.
Now: You _are_ telling me this regardless of whether you _know_ it.
I am telling you that you are telling me this because I thought you could learn and I am hoping that you will consider these questions and microaggressions in more depth. Because your _intent_ only matters so much when what you are telling me is literally this.
You aren't seemingly willing, which is a loss.
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Cody :collar: :verified_paw: (cody@catboy.baby)'s status on Monday, 16-Dec-2024 07:03:40 JST Cody :collar: :verified_paw:
@hrefna@hachyderm.io @puppygirlhornypost2@transfem.social They are under discussion because you mentioned them in your original thread. Also if you're going to continue to interpret what I'm saying in a way you're telling me yourself you know I am not intending it in, I see no point in continuing this discussion because it's extremely frustrating to have even your compliments argued against.
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