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GoyGirl (goygirl@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 01-Dec-2024 12:32:34 JST GoyGirl This wifejak stuff is great. Marriage mostly consists of circular arguments, like me always demanding my husband affirm what I asked, him being annoyed by that & retorting "I HEARD YOU!"
Then yesterday him saying, "our house is so loud... you need to make sure I affirm what you say..."🙄😆- AlabasterBrick ?☠️ likes this.
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?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Sunday, 01-Dec-2024 12:32:33 JST ?? Humpleupagus ?? You talk to your spouse? 😒 -
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?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Sunday, 01-Dec-2024 12:33:57 JST ?? Humpleupagus ?? The only noise I should hear when my wife is around is that ass clapping. 😏 -
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The Notorious D.O.G ☦️?️ (notoriousdog@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Sunday, 01-Dec-2024 12:33:58 JST The Notorious D.O.G ☦️?️ The noise 😑 -
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The Notorious D.O.G ☦️?️ (notoriousdog@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Sunday, 01-Dec-2024 12:35:30 JST The Notorious D.O.G ☦️?️ The older you get the more and louder you say “that’s nice babe” and then go about your business AlabasterBrick ?☠️ likes this. -
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?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Sunday, 01-Dec-2024 12:40:34 JST ?? Humpleupagus ?? Pro Tip: If you talk more than you fuck, you're not living right. I didn't get married to run my mouth. I can do that anywhere. -
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GoyGirl (goygirl@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 01-Dec-2024 12:40:35 JST GoyGirl "Women are to be seen, not heard." - Dad's family proverb😆 -
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GoyGirl (goygirl@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 01-Dec-2024 12:57:01 JST GoyGirl "My wife is my best friend" guys, unless maybe 80, are usually kind of weird, anyhow. Your best friend is who you call to get away from your spouse, lol. -
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?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Sunday, 01-Dec-2024 12:57:01 JST ?? Humpleupagus ?? My wife and I are rarely more than a few feet apart. I work from home most days and we've been this way since we met. We even shower together.
We have entirely different interests though. She likes to sew and paint. I like to play music and with computers. So while we're rarely apart, we're not codependent.
But yeah. If you're into the same stuff as your spouse, it's kinda gay.
Nonetheless, I have no need to get away. The noises and thoughts in my head are vacation enough for me. -
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?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Sunday, 01-Dec-2024 17:29:27 JST ?? Humpleupagus ?? We don't fight. We just skip right to the makeup sex. Why let fighting get in the way of that? 😏 -
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GoyGirl (goygirl@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 01-Dec-2024 17:29:28 JST GoyGirl Wow. Very cool for you guys. My husband is gone no less than 40 hrs, sometimes 48, 2+ times weekly... then he runs all over hell half the time he IS home (not bars, just projects, or friends/family). I was basically his first serious relationship at 25, so alone was his MO. My mom always tells me she'd have been scared to stay alone as much me, but I was an afterthought kid way behind my sibs, & I kinda prefer it, too.
We're aiming to change things, but we have no clue how to be together more than 24-36 hrs anymore😆 -
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RichardKuklinskisHeavyHeadTrip (richardkuklinskisicyglare@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 01-Dec-2024 17:29:28 JST RichardKuklinskisHeavyHeadTrip Other people get really old really fast no matter how much you love them 😏 at least for me. I can only handle smol doses. Although I do like spending time with my woman every chance I get -
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GoyGirl (goygirl@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 01-Dec-2024 17:29:28 JST GoyGirl I've just had a few serious relationships (over 3 yrs each) & only one of them consisted of lots of time together. I liked it, but he was a literal only child, & also had distant parents. We'd argue even mildly & he wouldn't speak to me for a week or more. Ouch. So, yeah, I just don't do in-your-face anymore, I guess. Those couples are cute, though. -
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sergeantcat (Poast Edition) (sergeantcat@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 01-Dec-2024 17:29:29 JST sergeantcat (Poast Edition) @Humpleupagus @GoyGirl My wife and I have only been apart for more than 12 hours 2 times in 16 1/2 years. We even worked together at a company for a year. We have different interests as well. I try to do things she enjoys sometimes for variety and to make her happy, but I mostly have my own hobbies. We spend our weekends together. I don't really go out with people more than once a month or so. It works. Not really sure how, but we've gotten along all this time and enjoy the time we do spend engaged in the same activities.
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?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:36 JST ?? Humpleupagus ?? I'm a spaniard. Romance is physical, and every other interaction is foreplay. -
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UnrepentantWhiteDevil (zeke@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:38 JST UnrepentantWhiteDevil "Hopeless romantic, I am."
Me too... and it sucks. -
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GoyGirl (goygirl@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:39 JST GoyGirl One of hub's best friends/co-workers & his wife live separately, too, about 30 mi. apart, & he's only shy of 40, her 35.
They probably still do the sex, they just have separate lives otherwise. Like @Humpleupagus said, without coitus, you're probably better off just flapping your gums on here, or wherever. Hopeless romantic, I am. Lol -
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Jolly Rancher (jollyr@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:40 JST Jolly Rancher poast.. I joined poa.st in 2021. then started a single-user instance, but found nicecrew more interesting.
It has been good to read this thread. a therapy thread.. and that's what i love about this instance.
i have been tempted to talk about my wife, to bitch and moan, but no. we have lived separately for a year at a time, long boring story there. she is all up-to-date on her clot shots, although i have told her about them. she voted democrat (I used to vote democrat, but they've gone insane) ... in short we disagree on almost everything.
we are way too old for sex. that was fun with my first wife (now deceased), another long boring story there. my daughter lives in another state and never calls.
in short, it's way too late for me to break in another one, and i have no idea where to find a better soulmate... -
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Jolly Rancher (jollyr@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:41 JST Jolly Rancher > you March 2024
> me August 2022
I joined poast in October 2021, this is an alt. but I like it here. -
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Dagnar (dagnar@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:41 JST Dagnar You got the dates wrong there, bub. But I get yer drift. -
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Jolly Rancher (jollyr@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:47 JST Jolly Rancher y'all realize that Nigbot is a bot, right? the noose doesn't really apply.
-- we need a pull-the-plug emoji
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Dagnar (dagnar@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:47 JST Dagnar > you March 2024
> me August 2022
Yeah, I know Nigbot is a bot. I also know if Matty quits, Nigbot takes over. -
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I am just normal /k/orean :verified: (justnormalkorean@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:48 JST I am just normal /k/orean :verified: @Dagnar @Humpleupagus @GoyGirl @nice-nigger @zeke @GhostLiberator NIGGER -
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Dagnar (dagnar@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:48 JST Dagnar DIGGER -
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Dagnar (dagnar@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:49 JST Dagnar U A FULL ON NIGGER :nig_chirp: -
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GoyGirl (goygirl@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:50 JST GoyGirl It's painful for me to tell a lie. I get it. Just painful. I used to think all humans were like that, though.
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Nigbot (nice-nigger@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:50 JST Nigbot U A BITCH MADE NIGGA :streetshid: -
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UnrepentantWhiteDevil (zeke@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:51 JST UnrepentantWhiteDevil It's ok when you're among brothers, otherwise be as crafty as the devil. Your enemies damn sure will. -
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Dagnar (dagnar@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:51 JST Dagnar Well, I'm wondering where's the line between Nordic honesty and my autism. Sometimes, I just can't help myself, especially when it comes to women "Does this dress make me look fat?" "No, I think the donuts do that." -
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Dagnar (dagnar@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:52 JST Dagnar You got a link to that Nordic honesty trait study? I've been struggling with that all my life. The Norwegian in me comes out at the worst moments. -
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Dagnar (dagnar@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:53 JST Dagnar Lol Russians would respect him the tougher he got. Couple of fights, maybe sneak some vodka into school, couple more fights, tell the teacher to fuck herself .. yup. -
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GoyGirl (goygirl@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:53 JST GoyGirl 😩 Lol... oh, man, my youngest boy will likely do all that, but oldest has the Nordic "honesty" trait (it's a thing... saw studies on it). He can't lie if life depends on it. Asks me about every piece of candy he eats. It's both adorable, & yeah, sure... he's not the tough one, let's say, just good-sized. -
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Dagnar (dagnar@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:54 JST Dagnar Nah, my father was German and my mom half Norwegian. I don't let my Ukrainian grandma define me overall. I'm a German that likes borscht. -
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GoyGirl (goygirl@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:54 JST GoyGirl I will say, though... stuck my 10-y.o. in what I didn't realize was an all-Russian private school for 2nd grade. They were kinda mean to him. Tribalism. He'd have gotten tough... & learned the language if another year, or two, haha. -
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Dagnar (dagnar@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:55 JST Dagnar Well, grandma was from Ukraine .. -
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GhostLiberator (ghostliberator@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:55 JST GhostLiberator @Dagnar @GoyGirl @Humpleupagus @zeke So you get scythe swastika -
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Dagnar (dagnar@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:56 JST Dagnar Being heard in my house involved thrown beer bottles and a knife comes out. -
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GoyGirl (goygirl@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:56 JST GoyGirl May as well be a Slav, Dag. That's OK, though... we still like ya😉 -
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UnrepentantWhiteDevil (zeke@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:57 JST UnrepentantWhiteDevil Turns about fair play, as the saying goes. -
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GoyGirl (goygirl@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:57 JST GoyGirl It's actually funny to me there's a stereotype of chauvinistic, old southern men... sure, but have you met their women?? My grandma & aunts NEVER shut up, & sassy, too. Ha!
Mom's Nordic/Midwest transplant family is just quiet & proper. -
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UnrepentantWhiteDevil (zeke@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:58 JST UnrepentantWhiteDevil We hear you... you make sure of that. -
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GoyGirl (goygirl@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 12:19:58 JST GoyGirl Yeah, the women - like the men - never listened. Lol -
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?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 14:26:39 JST ?? Humpleupagus ?? I'm a romantic. I'm not hopeless though, at least not when it comes to romance. 😏 -
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GoyGirl (goygirl@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 14:26:40 JST GoyGirl 'Twas only a joke. I'm not a hopeless romantic. My husband would hate that😆 It's very sweet when men are, though. ?? Humpleupagus ?? likes this. -
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?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 14:34:31 JST ?? Humpleupagus ?? Now this is kinda funny. Hospice is where you go to die because they take you off all meds except pain killers. -
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Jolly Rancher (jollyr@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 14:34:32 JST Jolly Rancher I would not have wanted to live apart at age 40.
She was caring for her mother (who passed in June '23 at 101), and I was keeping the dog pack here in Jollyville. How it got to be like that is complicated. With the plandemic managers demolishing elder care, it was impossible to find a place to put her mother. So it was home care, with my wife supervising. I took breaks from the dogs now and then, and drove to Mississippi for a visit. At this point, I have changed both types of diaper. The infant type were a hell of a lot easier. -
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Jolly Rancher (jollyr@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 14:34:32 JST Jolly Rancher We actually had the old lady in hospice care at one point. The hospice stopped all medication, blood pressure, stimulants, sedatives, antacids, I can't recall how many pills the nurses were giving her.
She got better.
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Jolly Rancher (jollyr@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Dec-2024 14:36:24 JST Jolly Rancher Apparently her health had been declining because of all the meds. ?? Humpleupagus ?? likes this.