Wow. Very cool for you guys. My husband is gone no less than 40 hrs, sometimes 48, 2+ times weekly... then he runs all over hell half the time he IS home (not bars, just projects, or friends/family). I was basically his first serious relationship at 25, so alone was his MO. My mom always tells me she'd have been scared to stay alone as much me, but I was an afterthought kid way behind my sibs, & I kinda prefer it, too.

We're aiming to change things, but we have no clue how to be together more than 24-36 hrs anymore😆