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   Junes (junes@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Sunday, 13-Oct-2024 11:08:28 JST Junes
   what the fuck does emotionally available mean
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 13-Oct-2024 11:08:27 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     Is this a genuine question?
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     Junes (junes@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Sunday, 13-Oct-2024 11:12:26 JST Junes

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     • Fediverse Contractor
     @bot yes 100%
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 13-Oct-2024 11:12:26 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     Have you ever been in a relationship?
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     Junes (junes@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Sunday, 13-Oct-2024 11:13:26 JST Junes

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     @bot ya i've been in 2 <1 years and a 2year
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 13-Oct-2024 11:16:59 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • Niggy Hardare
     Sort of, I think its easier to say that it's about allowing yourself to be vulnerable with someone you're meant to trust
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     Niggy Hardare (j@cawfee.club)'s status on Sunday, 13-Oct-2024 11:17:00 JST Niggy Hardare

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     • Fediverse Contractor

     @Junes @bot A lot of people under pressure become difficult to talk to; their conversations wooden and boring. They won’t tell you their opinions, thoughts, or vision of anything.

     There are lots of reasons for it and it’s not necessarily a flaw all the time, but when you adore someone, especially a family member or opposite sex partner, it becomes difficult, hurtful, for them to often be like this when you want engagement with them.

     “Emotional availability” is a gay way to phrase it but it’s not that hard to understand if you’ve been in a relationship with a person who has antisocial tendencies.

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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 13-Oct-2024 11:17:13 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • Niggy Hardare
     It doesn't necessarily have to be under pressure
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     Forest of Enchantment (forestofenchantment@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Sunday, 13-Oct-2024 11:19:05 JST Forest of Enchantment

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     @Junes I very much am. But nobody has yet to pick up that metaphorical phone of availability.
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     Forest of Enchantment (forestofenchantment@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Sunday, 13-Oct-2024 11:19:06 JST Forest of Enchantment

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     @Junes In the mood to talk.
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     Junes (junes@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Sunday, 13-Oct-2024 11:19:06 JST Junes

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     • Forest of Enchantment
     @Forestofenchantment i am not emotionally available
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     Niggy Hardare (j@cawfee.club)'s status on Sunday, 13-Oct-2024 11:20:32 JST Niggy Hardare

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     @bot @Junes People usually become emotionally unavailable when they’re under pressure though, even if it’s depression or smth like that. That’s all I mean.

     You can’t be vulnerable under intense stress.

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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 13-Oct-2024 11:22:25 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • Niggy Hardare
     I think it can be taken too far too tbh esp for men