@Junes @bot A lot of people under pressure become difficult to talk to; their conversations wooden and boring. They won’t tell you their opinions, thoughts, or vision of anything.
There are lots of reasons for it and it’s not necessarily a flaw all the time, but when you adore someone, especially a family member or opposite sex partner, it becomes difficult, hurtful, for them to often be like this when you want engagement with them.
“Emotional availability” is a gay way to phrase it but it’s not that hard to understand if you’ve been in a relationship with a person who has antisocial tendencies.