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   Ree (ree@shitposter.world)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 23:39:18 JST Ree
   cis men are stupid
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     Ree (ree@shitposter.world)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 23:39:23 JST Ree

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     like lets hide your emotions rolf very weak.
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     Ree (ree@shitposter.world)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 23:39:26 JST Ree

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     never will date them
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     kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 23:40:06 JST kaia

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     @Ree find yourself a cis man and shape him to be cool :Sheew:
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     Sick Sun (sun@shitposter.world)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 23:40:14 JST Sick Sun

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     @Ree 99 percent of what you are saying is stuff you picked up from somewhere else, that is why people think you were groomed.
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     Sick Sun (sun@shitposter.world)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 23:46:11 JST Sick Sun

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     @Ree you want to know why people miss iceloops, because he was a radically unique individual. people are allowed to change, but not where you go from that to just repeating cliches. i'm sorry if this sounds mean. i want to support you unconditionally whatever you decide but this is difficult to reconcile.
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     Sick Sun (sun@shitposter.world)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 23:50:53 JST Sick Sun

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     @Ree the correct thing to do first is transcend caring about those people because you're not going to escape that with a new identity.
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     Ree (ree@shitposter.world)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 23:50:54 JST Ree

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     @sun he died because he kept hiding because people made fun of him. i'm done hiding and i am very sorry for that.
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     Sick Sun (sun@shitposter.world)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 23:52:21 JST Sick Sun

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     @Ree a bunch of people that actually cared about you feel hurt by you, you traded that acceptance for acceptance by who exactly?
     
     i am not saying the name but the person.
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     Sick Sun (sun@shitposter.world)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 23:53:31 JST Sick Sun

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     @Ree that is a good answer. but you still need to not alienate friends even if you think they're wrong.
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     Ree (ree@shitposter.world)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 23:53:32 JST Ree

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     @sun acceptance by who exactly myself
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     Sick Sun (sun@shitposter.world)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 23:55:22 JST Sick Sun

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     @Ree stop antagonizing people first and foremost, particularly people who were frindly with you before.
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     Ree (ree@shitposter.world)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 23:56:33 JST Ree

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     @sun well the jokes arent funny
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     Sick Sun (sun@shitposter.world)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 23:56:33 JST Sick Sun

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     @Ree no one should make jokes at your expense. but address them don't retaliate.
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     Sick Sun (sun@shitposter.world)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 23:59:03 JST Sick Sun

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     @Ree i have tried to support you unconditionally and i still support you and want you to be healthy and happy. but i am going to be as honest with you as i can and i think you're making a lot of avoidable mistakes.
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     sim@shitposter.world's status on Tuesday, 08-Oct-2024 00:46:23 JST sim

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     @Ree Hiding your emotions doesn't make you weak. It is wisdom because not everyone has your best interests in mind and you have to be careful with who you allow in. It's also important for men to be emotionally resilient so that when the situation calls for it, they are able to think during a crisis and they can take the necessary actions required of them to keep them and those around them safe. This is particularly important when they have a wife and children to take care of. I think a lot of guys come at this from the wrong angle but it's not wrong to learn to be a stoic for example. It helps you to focus on the things that you do have control over rather than spiraling over what you cannot control. That is an important skill to have.
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     sim@shitposter.world's status on Tuesday, 08-Oct-2024 00:46:57 JST sim

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     @Ree I have been there. It is important to recognise your emotions and to meet your needs, this is a part of having emotional resilience. But this doesn't mean that you lash out at other people, that you tell everyone what is happening. You need to find a few people that you can trust to talk through things until you get better at recognising this in yourself. When you can do this check yourself then it gets easier. You may want to see a professional or read a self-help book for some exercises on this and see what is helpful.
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     Ree (ree@shitposter.world)'s status on Tuesday, 08-Oct-2024 00:46:58 JST Ree

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     @sim yeah yeah yeah how about when you don't know your emotions? i just know anger and sad.
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     sim@shitposter.world's status on Tuesday, 08-Oct-2024 00:47:21 JST sim

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     @Ree If you are seeing a therapist, might it be worth drawing something that demonstrates your current understanding of emotions and then another for social stuff? Then they might be able to help you fill in the gaps. A lot of this stuff is also going out and experiencing this, having a trusted person that knows who can lead and help you to understand this. Moon seems to be supportive so you might be able to ask him about some situations, at least on here.
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     sim@shitposter.world's status on Tuesday, 08-Oct-2024 00:47:22 JST sim

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     @Ree Fair enough. Perhaps consider it as learning how to be emotionally resilient? I hope that it works out for you.
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     Ree (ree@shitposter.world)'s status on Tuesday, 08-Oct-2024 00:47:22 JST Ree

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     @sim like i dont know nothing about emotions or socail satuff
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     Ree (ree@shitposter.world)'s status on Tuesday, 08-Oct-2024 00:47:23 JST Ree

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     @sim >You may want to see a professional
     i am in 3 days but for anger management i rather not go. i remember back in elementary they did this never worked.