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"I'd rather not set a pecking order, but I feel like women, POC/non-white, trans people, etc. probably get it a lot worse. (Maybe they don't. I have no data)"
Have you seen the employment figures for people with autism? Or discrimination by the police? Or the fact that there is less support for them that actually helps them, even in the education sector? There is a lot that still needs to be done to support people with autism in society.
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@iceloops @Nudhul knock it off
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@Nudhul
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@Nudhul do you like hurting other people? - richard hotline miami?
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@Nudhul
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@iceloops @sim @asa are you?
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@sim @asa sorry
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@iceloops @asa I can tell that you have autism because you join threads and make it all about your personal issues in order to relate to the thread and have something to contribute. Even when that isn't what the thread is about.
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@asa @sim another as a teen i wish i learned more about transgenderism but think about it the early 2010s were transphobic and homopbhoic as hell. and i need to break that shit to. because i don't care what people think people can rot because i am trying to find the real me and i found out the what i am now i need the who i am.
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@asa @sim the old me was hella racist but i'm glad walt told me hey stop that
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@asa @sim yeah because you will do things that aren't normal like yesterday i found out my true name and i got called insane. i told mom and she understands. told the cousin she understands i havn't told dad. i guess 2 years ago i had Ego death and i had to just kill the old me (the old self). the android the robot the trash the world showed me how to be around the world i hate taking 2 years and all my life to figure it out is hell and scary. i wish i learned things long ago because i would act more so the school would kick me out so i would be free. i guess i need to mentally kick myself out of these places that scare me.
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@sim high IQ people, for example aspergers are the most discriminated against because not only you are perceived as not normal but also you are perceived as “already having enough” for being smart.
Basically you get hated for being inferior and for being superior simultaneously.
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@iceloops @sim yeah maybe take a break
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@sim @sun and i don't know what to do here i guess stay off the fediverse for a while? and do something productive because i don't think people are doing anything productive on here. and i guess i can just talk to moon on telegram as for you maybe we can talk about books? and other things i found?
atleast show him what i am doing. as for discord i think its crap anyway just nothing but small talk like on here i see nothing but lot of fakeness. and its not shitposter world i'm talking about.
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@sim @sun well i can be very honest here i do mean it. everytime i mess up a thread i feel bad. and i shouldn't all the time
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@iceloops @sun That's not what it looked like from here. I have no idea what "do you like hurting other people? - richard hotline miami?" is supposed to mean.
I just accepted it but asking if you are sorry is a legitimate question in this instance because just saying sorry doesn't demonstrate that you understood what I was saying.
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@sun @iceloops @Nudhul Thanks. The post in question needed only one response or ignoring it altogether. It doesn't need meme spam to derail the thread even though I get things are difficult for ice right now.
The best way to get someone to leave you alone is to not respond to them and they will usually move on because there is nothing to respond to.
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@sim @sun i guess i freaked out and i was asking the other person if they hurt people because i wanted to know and showed them proof and i guess deal with it if they didn't like it and leave? what? i guess i wanted to know their answer. and i guess i scare people.
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@sim @Alex @asa its like people should be happy i'm finding my puzzle pieces of myself and try to improve. all i hear around here "i'm insane" aren't we all.? like i understand i won't be 100% me because things will be lost to time and hope the inner child and self will help.
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@iceloops @Alex @asa Why do people have to be happy about that? Most people on fedi won't know you, they will probably be indifferent to you at best.
Here is another thought, if you want to be accepted as yourself then you'll have to accept that other people may find you insane because that is their opinion. That is them being themselves, having their own thoughts. You cannot control that so you are better off letting them be and doing your own thing. Focus on what you can control which is yourself.
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@sim @Alex @asa its like mom she thinks i'm mean like dude i just rewoken from a think i broke like i did in 2022 with my gender bs. and here i go talking about me. i hope one day i can type some what normal i don't want to be normal or very bad like yesterday
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@iceloops @Alex @asa No, I have seen a few cases where it really is like they can't talk in any other way. I don't know what it is but they end up making the discussion about themselves and you can't bring it back to the topic at hand. I don't know how to describe it. But some people seem incapable of discussing other people, of thinking about other people if it doesn't relate to them in some way.
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@Alex @asa @iceloops We usually contribute using what we can relate to I think. But it helps to change things up a bit. I haven't seen you being bad with this in my threads.
Mind you, I think there are some autists that really struggle with this. All they can seem to talk about is themselves and it is annoying because you end up feeling like a sounding board. Like you aren't even a person to them. It doesn't register to them to ask about how you are doing, to not make something about themselves when you are discussing your personal issues or daily life with them. You can't really have a conversation with them.
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@sim @Alex @asa >. All they can seem to talk about is themselves
we try to do this to relate but we screw that up
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I do this a lot too, I always forget how annoying it must be.
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@daughterofgia oh shut it. atleast i'll have a happier life. being autisitc and your monster (the transgender spaghetti monster). i'm at peace with myself. also your bigotary is a spook
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Ooooohhh, are you going to commit suicide? Pls don't 🤭
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@Alex @asa @sim should be happy but i guess fuck being happy i'm not being a people pleaser.
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@Alex @asa @sim if me being "normal" or weird is crazy i don't care anymore i'm done. thats why i don't like it here with my internet dead name
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@sim @Alex @asa maybe people stop talking about me like they did in school. hey i'm being a person and not a lame robot who just talks to because thats what the world made me.
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@iceloops @Alex @asa Yeah, I'm not sure what your mum has to do with this or why you are broadcasting this to the public timeline. I hope you can figure things out too so that you can have conversations with people without it devolving into this. If you catch yourself, it might be worth deleting what you have just written or moving it to a diary or word document for these thoughts if you need to put them down somewhere.
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@sim @Alex @asa > I hope you can figure things out too so that you can have conversations with people without it devolving into this
wasn't this is why i was post to go on break? other than me freaking out everyday