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   Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 11:05:12 JST Fediverse Contractor
   I've been getting hit with these crazy emotional states recently, it's so intense. I've also tried to be a lot more mindful of things so maybe that's related idk
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 11:07:52 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     Being mindful of yourself is so difficult, it really makes you question wtf you're doing with your time
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 11:09:34 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • pwm
     It's not like that really, it's just so much emotion. Have you ever felt like that? I know you have feelings to don't pretend you don't
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     pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 11:09:35 JST pwm

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     @bot I think so long as you're aware of them and don't let them manifest themselves with negative/harmful/destructive actions it's probably fine to feel that way sometimes.
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     pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 11:14:55 JST pwm

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     @bot Now why would I pretend not to?
     
     Yes, I have felt like that, and it sucks. It usually doesn't last very long, but it is oppressive and crushing in the moment.
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     Based Ocean Enjoyer (diceyocean@annihilation.social)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 11:19:12 JST Based Ocean Enjoyer

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     @bot it’s crazy I experienced the exact same thing and don’t know why. It’s like some stares that traverse you
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 11:19:34 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • pwm
     I don't try to ignore it, I like to feel things. I feel like ppl are so desensitised to emotion and they just try to push it away because it's difficult to deal with.
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     🍔fat fuck🍔 (road to sick cunt) (not_benis@cawfee.club)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 11:19:35 JST 🍔fat fuck🍔 (road to sick cunt)

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     • pwm
     @bot @pwm usually it goes away if you ignore it for a bit, that's my secret technique
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 11:21:49 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • 🍔fat fuck🍔 (road to sick cunt)
     • pwm
     Oh right, it'd be terrible if your shame and desires to achieve your goals actually motivated you to not be a fatso, better bury those emotions
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     🍔fat fuck🍔 (road to sick cunt) (not_benis@cawfee.club)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 11:21:50 JST 🍔fat fuck🍔 (road to sick cunt)

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     • pwm
     @bot @pwm I'm a large man, I can't afford to do that
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     Mancow Muller ? (cowanon@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 11:22:57 JST Mancow Muller ?

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     • pwm
     I'm autistic with bipolar tendencies so I'm definitely the minority here: I feel way too strongly no matter what I'm feeling. It's why I expend so much effort in seeking relaxing and engaging activities.
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 11:25:44 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • pwm
     I'm not going to pretend I know how to give advice for serious disorders like that because I really don't know. I think it's good that you've found a way to manage it tho, but also remember to take care of yourself and prioritise your health.
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 11:27:06 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • pwm
     Not angry enough to actually get fit tho, seems like a cope. Turn the anger inwards towards your fat rolls and get rid of them.
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     🍔fat fuck🍔 (road to sick cunt) (not_benis@cawfee.club)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 11:27:07 JST 🍔fat fuck🍔 (road to sick cunt)

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     • pwm
     @bot @pwm no, if I get too angry I might hurt someone. Sadness is fine, I just harass w*men online when that happens
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 11:31:50 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • 🍔fat fuck🍔 (road to sick cunt)
     • pwm
     Keep being a fat hog then, I'm sure you'll achieve your goals that way
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     🍔fat fuck🍔 (road to sick cunt) (not_benis@cawfee.club)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 11:31:51 JST 🍔fat fuck🍔 (road to sick cunt)

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     • pwm
     @bot @pwm I appreciate the sentiment, but when I said I NEED a sanctimonious firecracker I meant IRL so that I can grab her ass as well
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     🍔fat fuck🍔 (road to sick cunt) (not_benis@cawfee.club)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 11:40:42 JST 🍔fat fuck🍔 (road to sick cunt)

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     • pwm
     @bot @pwm yes mommy, investigate me harder please
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     pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 11:40:42 JST pwm

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     • 🍔fat fuck🍔 (road to sick cunt)
     @not_benis @bot 🗞️
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 13:10:06 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     Going through it rn
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     NipsAryaN (mr_aryan_77@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 13:12:47 JST NipsAryaN

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     Hope you feel better
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 13:13:08 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • NipsAryaN
     I'm trying to just get over it but I can't
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 13:13:58 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • NipsAryaN
     Ok maybe i can idk but it's just so much
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     NipsAryaN (mr_aryan_77@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 13:16:53 JST NipsAryaN

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     You got this. I have a treadmill at my house now. Game changer
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 13:19:58 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • NipsAryaN
     I was literally thinking of walking it off but I already did gym tho, I'm just trying to let it pass. I might still walk it off idk rn
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 13:29:53 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • Mr. Bacon
     Go choke on paint chips retard
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 13:29:54 JST Mr. Bacon

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     Is it that time of the month?
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     pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 13:30:13 JST pwm

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     • NipsAryaN
     @bot @Mr_Aryan_77 good attitude to have
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 13:33:56 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • pwm
     Idk I don't feel good rn but it's also basically nothing, but I guess almost anything is basically nothing idk
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 13:35:25 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • Mr. Bacon
     You could just be empathetic instead of reserving all of it for born males
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 13:35:26 JST Mr. Bacon

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     🙄 in all fairness it would explain sudden emotions.
     
     but fine, I have paint to eat anyway. I’ll go be helpful somewhere else
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     pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 13:48:22 JST pwm

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     • NipsAryaN
     @bot @Mr_Aryan_77 I mean yeah there's that perspective that nothing is anything because nothing matters but that's not a constructive outlook because the logical conclusion is that you should just lay down and die because there is no point to any of it good or bad.
     
     Feeling good all the time is not normal. It's sort of a semantic argument, but if we felt good all the time there would be no differentiation of good, from not good. In my opinion feeling bad sometimes is necessary. Bad stuff does happen, bad feelings do come up, and you'd have to have something wrong with you to enjoy it the way you do for good things. It's also why anyone's goal should never be just to feel good, because that way lies madness and depravity.
     
     Sadness is necessary and normal. Happiness is necessary and normal, and some balance between the two is a prerequisite of well-adjustment. In my opinion, contrast and sometimes contradiction are needed to remain even-keeled. You won't feel sad forever. Basically anyone who will tel you that they are sad forever is either severely unwell, does it to themselves willfully, or some combination thereof.
     
     It's fine to be sad, you'll be alright. Don't fall into the trap of feeling bad about feeling bad, as that way lies destruction.
     
     anyway, I rate this post who asked / effortpost
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 13:59:27 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • pwm
     I think this is beyond normal tbh but I'm also probably overreacting. I'm trying to fight it
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     pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Monday, 02-Sep-2024 14:57:41 JST pwm

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     • NipsAryaN
     @bot @Mr_Aryan_77 Keep yourself busy if you can, staying inside your own head won't get you out of it.
     
     Cross some chores off your to-do list, make stuff happen that will just give you something else to think about. Going for a walk or even just strolling around a park with a nice garden or something.
     
     As a backup there is always ritual, though that's an iffy thing as it can often be solo or contemplative; for me that's stuff like brewing beverages like tea or coffee, and the process of drinking it.
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