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Whenever I look at a woman, my instantaneous and subconscious judgment is "would this one be fun to have sex with?"
Is this something any other men experience? I always thought it was normal.
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@s2208 Yes but I think that's your modern brain kicking in...we all have it at this point.
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I think “fuck, kill, run” is a very basic instinct tho
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obvs don’t act on the info except when unmistakably appropriate
but it happens and it’s real
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@s2208 There's always this quick assessment, almost within the first 2 seconds, after which I simply file the info away never to be used. I then go on to judge the woman in a more normal non-sexual manner. And no mistake, we always judge others in subtle ways - how they dress, how they talk, etc. It's part of how we interact.
Anyway, the sex judgment is totally irrelevant to me now. Happily married for several years now (been married 29 years in total, but you know the story). I've also found that as I get older, I get more and more discriminating. As a young man with a hard pecker, I'd be willing to stick it in anything. As an old man, I see a lot more of the red flags that make my pecker shrivel up. Crazy ain't nearly as much fun at my age. Save it for your wife, and keep that reptile brain locked up.
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@67dodgeman @s2208 Peckerbrain is real. Ran into a girl I knew from some time ago. Absolute smokeshow from top to bottom and I rationalized she was interesting back then. Surely there was something mental to balance all of that out.
First topic of conversation is about "sexual harassment". Then she assumed I followed her "insta" (lol imagine having one). And I know from mutual friends that she was posting stuff where she was covering just her nips, back in her prime.
Terminally online wamyn are very weird creatures. Less self-awareness and foresight than a niglet in front of a mirror.
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Women cease to exist when no one is interacting with them. They will go to great lengths to ensure a baseline level of attention at all time.
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well then, the answer is “no”
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@s2208 Provided she isn't repulsive, yes.
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I left my wife with a laundry basket full of belongings, my car, and $6000. I never looked back and I don’t miss any of it except for my cat Barry.
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The breakup is fine, it's the weeks of petty texts over who owns the pillows on the couch or the TV stand.
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Yeah, even if I'm not married, I'll still jump out the window with my toothbrush and buy a whole new [everything] just to avoid the drama of breaking up. 🥴
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No matter how bad you want it, a breakup is a fucked-up night.
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A guy I work with dropped by my place and remarked about how all the furniture and appliances looked so new.
I had to explain that every time I parted ways with a woman that the judge gives her all my old stuff. 😿
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I've been through so many divorces, whenever I see a pretty woman in public, my brain just imagines how expensive she'll be.
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@s2208 Most men are swayed by women telling them that going after youthful women makes you some kind of pedo.
Truth is - that's your instinct to FIND A MATE kicking in.
Women hate that, because most of them wait until they are 30-35 to go looking for a mate after fucking Chad Megacock all through their 20's and don't want you looking for a 20 year old when you're 30 or 40. And that's THEIR instinct.
This differs from simply "having fun with some chick"
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are men indeed swayed by this argument? it never impacted me at all.
on the other hand, instead of looking for a young woman, I looked for a woman my age who aged slowly. this was also a winning move for me.
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more children is low on my list
but I actually have that sorted out too
she’s choosing our surrogate(s) now
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@s2208 Perhaps, but a woman your age who aged slowly is still going to have detrimental effects from her age on her ability to procreate.
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@thefinn @s2208 "Little do stupid people know, general Robert E Lee's wife was 20 years younger than him. He was 40 years old. Shes of age and this is not pedophilia. This was just opposite attraction by mature opposite forces."
~Demon.
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that’s appropriate but the opposite is WEIRD
Like the frog president meeting his grand mother
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@thefinn @Captain80s @JeffTheJoker @s2208 @Aly I read somewhere that if you get more than 10 IQ points apart you really aren't going to have much to talk about with another person.
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@DC5FAN @Captain80s @JeffTheJoker @s2208 @Aly I don't get on with my mother much - 89IQ - I'm not even kidding.
The other week she said "I have to get off the phone, Australia's got talent (or one of those shows) is on."
And I go "Bread and Circuses" and she goes "What?"
I explained it to her, and she's like "yeah but I just want singer X to win."
I said "And two thousand years ago you would've wanted gladiator X to win, what's the difference?"
She couldn't get it.
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My ex wife exactly.
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I will have to check out that book it may explain a lot to me.
Sometimes it is very difficult to be around people because they just dont seem to get it. It being a whole lot of things.
My mom likes to tell a story of back when I was still in diapers. I was in Minnesota in the winter. They could not find me anywhere. My grandma found me sitting on a tree stump with my hand under my chin thinking.
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@Captain80s @JeffTheJoker @s2208 @Aly lol
Yeah the book is very insightful. I recognised myself right away.
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@Aly @JeffTheJoker @s2208 Yeah those two were next level.
I have a 141 IQ. That puts me in the top 3% (just).
So that kind of limits the range of women you will date and still put up with a level of stupid.
Unless you want to sit there all day explaining what every single sentence coming out of your mouth means.
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That explains why I am so fucking intolerant of them and why I piss my female relatives off so badly. Two of them will not speak to me anymore.
Mom said they did my IQ testing back in the 70s in 1st grade because I was hyper and would not pay attention in class they put it at 148.
I guess this means if we where stupid we would get along with them better?
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@Captain80s @JeffTheJoker @s2208 @Aly Yes. There's a good book called "The curse of the high IQ" I really suggest it a lot to people.
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@Aly @JeffTheJoker @s2208 The worst date I ever went on was a blind date.
And the girl brought her girlfriend who clearly hated me right away because jealousy - of course.
I took it in stride, and saw her for lunch another time, but there was no "there there".
They both seemed like airheads.
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@thefinn @JeffTheJoker @s2208 Yeah, I couldn't see you with an air head.
I've got 6 sisters (+2 brothers) so I guess it can't be easy. Once I went out with a guy that was so qute and ugly and mean I couldn't speak. I think he thought I was an air head 😏
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@Aly @JeffTheJoker @s2208 That's going a little far lol
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@thefinn @JeffTheJoker @s2208 I know. It's embarrassing.
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@JeffTheJoker @s2208 I tend to agree.
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@thefinn @JeffTheJoker @s2208 parents just have to stay together and be involved. A girl can never go on a first date unless the parents have met him. My father has straight up asked a guy for his license, taken a pic and sent a third party on the date. 😹
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I'm just gonna say this and get it off my mind, but....arranged marriages work better. It's time to respect and honor the ancient customs and traditions that actually serve a useful role.
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