@s2208 There's always this quick assessment, almost within the first 2 seconds, after which I simply file the info away never to be used. I then go on to judge the woman in a more normal non-sexual manner. And no mistake, we always judge others in subtle ways - how they dress, how they talk, etc. It's part of how we interact.

Anyway, the sex judgment is totally irrelevant to me now. Happily married for several years now (been married 29 years in total, but you know the story). I've also found that as I get older, I get more and more discriminating. As a young man with a hard pecker, I'd be willing to stick it in anything. As an old man, I see a lot more of the red flags that make my pecker shrivel up. Crazy ain't nearly as much fun at my age. Save it for your wife, and keep that reptile brain locked up.