@m2m A number of friends and I have turned to Signal because of this. The format itself is similar to iMessage/etc but the killer feature is that we set our room to expire after 24 hours. It’s amazing how freeing it is to know that most will read something and, 24 hours later, it's gone. Nothing to worry about anymore. I'm not sure it's the solution here but it has kept a group of us going for almost 4 years now and is really pretty great for that. @michal_zelazny @mykie @kel @silviamaggi