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   Kit Rhett Aultman (roadriverrail@signs.codes)'s status on Saturday, 23-Dec-2023 07:18:14 JST Kit Rhett Aultman

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   • PJ Coffey
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   • Shapeshifting Bog Wren
   • Mattie
   • Lillian Violet

   @WrenArcher @GLaDTheresCake @Homebrewandhacking @ttpphd @zigg Yeah, I understand the desire to do that. I often say I'm "about as close to trans woman as an enby gets", but I still don't want to be a woman. But often "women and nonbinary" spaces require me to check things out first every time to see if they mean what they say.

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     Shapeshifting Bog Wren (wrenarcher@beige.party)'s status on Saturday, 23-Dec-2023 07:18:15 JST Shapeshifting Bog Wren

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     • PJ Coffey
     • T. T. Perry
     • Mattie
     • Lillian Violet

     @GLaDTheresCake
     AMAB enby here.
     I routinely identify myself to others as a trans woman for similar reasons (safety, acceptance, etc) but...

     I'm an enby.
     A pretty damn girly enby but still...

     an enby.
     @Homebrewandhacking @ttpphd @zigg

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     Lillian Violet (gladtherescake@todon.nl)'s status on Saturday, 23-Dec-2023 07:18:17 JST Lillian Violet

     • PJ Coffey
     • T. T. Perry
     • Mattie

     @Homebrewandhacking
     It makes me feel unsafe too, and I identify as a trans woman to some sometimes, mostly when I feel less likely to be accepted otherwise. If anyone excludes people that are masc (perceived, coded, or presenting) enbies (or limits people who look like that for perceived "masculinity" until they come out) you won't see me joining any of your events either.
     @ttpphd @zigg