I'm the only person who's brave enough to say this but, while I understand the historical significance and reasoning, the modern so-called LGBT communitys obsession with sex/kink and the assumption that everyone else is okay with it being a constant thing that is always shown to you whether you want to see it or not is extremely alienating for many more than just the people who will admit it
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Vriska Returns To The Sea (vriska@lizards.live)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 07:19:43 JST Vriska Returns To The Sea - georgia likes this.
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Vriska Returns To The Sea (vriska@lizards.live)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 07:19:38 JST Vriska Returns To The Sea @Rasp it's just a general comment on how people act
One too many people show me graphic fetish art "as a joke"
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💜 Dr. Blight ❤️ (rasp@raru.re)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 07:19:39 JST 💜 Dr. Blight ❤️ @vriska hm?
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Vriska Returns To The Sea (vriska@lizards.live)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 07:19:40 JST Vriska Returns To The Sea @Rasp the last 15 years
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💜 Dr. Blight ❤️ (rasp@raru.re)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 07:19:43 JST 💜 Dr. Blight ❤️ @vriska what happened?
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on-lain ✔ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ (lain@lain.com)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 07:24:07 JST on-lain ✔ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ @vriska you are a good catholic after all clacke likes this. -
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on-lain ✔ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ (lain@lain.com)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 07:51:03 JST on-lain ✔ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ @vriska it was always a strange strategy to fight the image of the uninhibited sex pest with san francisco style pride parades -
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Vriska Returns To The Sea (vriska@lizards.live)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 07:55:10 JST Vriska Returns To The Sea And I say this as a bisexual and intersex woman not some straightie
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Vriska Returns To The Sea (vriska@lizards.live)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 07:57:46 JST Vriska Returns To The Sea @lain I think the reason it got this bad is the old tolerance rhetoric of "gay people are literally the same as straight people! The only difference is who they have sex with!"
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on-lain ✔ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ (lain@lain.com)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 07:57:46 JST on-lain ✔ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ @vriska but isn't that the opposite? -
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Haelwenn /элвэн/ :triskell: (lanodan@queer.hacktivis.me)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 07:58:28 JST Haelwenn /элвэн/ :triskell: @vriska To me it's specially weird when the kink communities that I know tend to have the explicit rule of "Don't involve other people without their consent". -
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Vriska Returns To The Sea (vriska@lizards.live)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 07:59:22 JST Vriska Returns To The Sea @Rasp oh gosh you have no idea they think I'm joking
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💜 Dr. Blight ❤️ (rasp@raru.re)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 07:59:23 JST 💜 Dr. Blight ❤️ @vriska Oh that is stupid. I usually keep things pg13 unless I warn people first or know they don't care.
I bet you told them off and MFers don't listen too SMH
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LisPi (lispi314@mastodon.top)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 08:00:05 JST LisPi @vriska @Rasp Some people seem to forget the Ace spectrum and particularly the "sex-repulsed" part.
Now, do I post stuff on my timeline? Yes. Do I go out of my way to ping people with it, particularly after they've told me they don't like it? No.
As for chats, I'm just used to the old-school tagging nsfw stuff as nsfw. As one does.
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Vriska Returns To The Sea (vriska@lizards.live)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 08:00:06 JST Vriska Returns To The Sea @lain which has never been true in human history, being that fundamentally different from the majority of society changes one in ways they never would end up if not gay
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:blobancap: :blobcattrans: :blobancap: :blobcattrans: :blobancap: :blobcattrans: (allison@hidamari.apartments)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 08:00:41 JST :blobancap: :blobcattrans: :blobancap: :blobcattrans: :blobancap: :blobcattrans: @lanodan @vriska rule against sex pests in community which is ideal playing grounds for sex pests, what else is new Haelwenn /элвэн/ :triskell: likes this. -
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Vriska Returns To The Sea (vriska@lizards.live)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 08:01:00 JST Vriska Returns To The Sea @lispi314 @Rasp a few years ago the rest of the alphabet decided that since asexual people don't experience legal discrimination (debatable) they were no longer allowed in the club even if they were LGBT otherwise
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on-lain ✔ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ (lain@lain.com)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 08:01:46 JST on-lain ✔ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ @vriska yeah, that's true. at least in everyone's personal life, we can act with love. -
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narcolepsy and alcoholism :flag: (hj@shigusegubu.club)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 08:02:47 JST narcolepsy and alcoholism :flag: @nik @vriska
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taylor (nik@misskey.bubbletea.dev)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 08:02:48 JST taylor @vriska@lizards.live what is your indicator for the "modern lgbt community" (genuine question i feel like i live under a rock with this kinda stuff despite being exclusively friends with queers)
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Vriska Returns To The Sea (vriska@lizards.live)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 08:03:43 JST Vriska Returns To The Sea @ShaMyouiMo honestly you're so right the straight people do it too, constant nonstop weird sex "jokes"
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just me (shamyouimo@kpop.social)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 08:03:44 JST just me @vriska As a straightie :chaewonlt: , I have no say in this but I will say on the straight side, there's just so much stuff about sex now and I feel like that's all some people talk about and they always feel the need to make a joke in every convo it can be suffocating when you're stuck in an uncomfy situation like that and only you think it's weird
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Haelwenn /элвэн/ :triskell: (lanodan@queer.hacktivis.me)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 08:05:31 JST Haelwenn /элвэн/ :triskell: @ShaMyouiMo @vriska Reminds me of being like "Dammit, give me a movie without a fucking sex scene, I don't want that shit right now" few years ago.
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Vriska Returns To The Sea (vriska@lizards.live)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 08:06:14 JST Vriska Returns To The Sea @nik internet tenderqueers, people who infight on Facebook groups, corporate pride goers, liberals in their 40s, racist white gay men, people who think being asked to do chores is gaslighting, "community organizers" who are afraid of conflict, the list goes on
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taylor (nik@misskey.bubbletea.dev)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 08:17:56 JST taylor @vriska@lizards.live many of us are reformed terminally online 😅 myself included
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taylor (nik@misskey.bubbletea.dev)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 08:17:57 JST taylor @vriska@lizards.live i guess the reason i avoid these types is that the only people i talk to nowadays are non-terminally-online zoomer queers who have experienced genuine hardship in their life
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Vriska Returns To The Sea (vriska@lizards.live)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 08:17:57 JST Vriska Returns To The Sea @nik genuinely happy to hear there are zoomers who aren't terminally online
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narcolepsy and alcoholism :flag: (hj@shigusegubu.club)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 08:39:40 JST narcolepsy and alcoholism :flag: @nik @vriska it's more of a tamer one. There was a better example I can't find right now where there was a normal guy in a business suit and it said "homosexual" and there was some guy wearing a literal suit of dildos on a what seems like a pride parade and it said "this... thing".
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taylor (nik@misskey.bubbletea.dev)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 08:39:41 JST taylor @hj@shigusegubu.club @vriska@lizards.live im not necessarily disagreeing with vriska just...I don't see what this image has to add to this conversation
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taylor (nik@misskey.bubbletea.dev)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 08:39:43 JST taylor @hj@shigusegubu.club @vriska@lizards.live i dont see any sex or kink in this image
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sim@shitposter.club's status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 08:57:05 JST sim @vriska @lain This is something that I would love to explore more, especially in writing. I need to find some people willing to discuss this with me and give me a different perspective than I am used to. Hmm. It does seem like it changes you. on-lain ✔ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ likes this. -
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clacke (clacke@libranet.de)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 18:01:32 JST clacke @vriska I'm pretty sure the beige queers got their marriages because the neon queers were out there pushing boundaries. Every movement needs its extremist loudmouths so there's something to compromise over.