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   mr bigot (c@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Monday, 21-Aug-2023 02:28:21 JST mr bigot
   After so many years on dating apps, I've come to the conclusion that there aren't good women out there looking for a man. Those all get snatched up in high school and the few slower ones in college. Everybody left is a slut, a slut with kids, a slut who vehemently denies having been a slut despite it being obvious, and just extreme uggos. There is no valuable and aggressive 20 year old on OKCupid who is looking for a good man and deserves him.
   
   This culture has incorporated the primae noctis concept from Braveheart (real or not, idk, who cares) but instead of the nobleman fucking your wife, it's the general population of promiscuous men who fuck her first. It's not about their gratification but a reminder to the men that they are slaves to be abused by the system-rulers. Our enslavement is that bad and people refuse to talk about it because they don't want it to get even worse for them.
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     Microchimera (opphunter88@gleasonator.com)'s status on Monday, 21-Aug-2023 02:36:14 JST Microchimera

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     @c If you can't build connections with women and your response is "women are the problem" you're ngmi.
     
     It doesn't even matter if it's true, it's just a worthless approach to take.
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     mr bigot (c@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Monday, 21-Aug-2023 02:36:14 JST mr bigot

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     You're talking about DMing e-girls like we should accept that as the norm.
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     mr bigot (c@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Monday, 21-Aug-2023 02:36:15 JST mr bigot

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     DMing people on Twitter isn't any more normal than using a free dating app and sifting through the bots. I'd argue it's less normal because at least on a dating app, you make your intentions obvious from the start. And maybe that's the problem: women, by nature, seem to be very unwilling to be direct and honest. The idea of sitting down and creating an honest profile for yourself is like Kryptonite to them. They'd rather just go apply more makeup and take Myspace angle photos for Instagram likes.
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     Microchimera (opphunter88@gleasonator.com)'s status on Monday, 21-Aug-2023 02:36:16 JST Microchimera

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     @c Dating apps are bottom of the barrel and there are weird expectations on there, I don't like it. If you're going to meet girls online it makes more sense to do it in a normal social context.
     
     That's how it works IRL, you don't just go up to a girl and say "I wish you to be my bride, here are my hobbies and my job."
     
     There's a reason the only dating apps that stayed popular are the ones that emulated Grindr. It's only conducive to casual sex, which you're not going to be having if you're 1: a good person, or 2: below average in anything immediately perceptible.
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     mr bigot (c@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Monday, 21-Aug-2023 02:36:17 JST mr bigot

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     Well I still find it disgusting that those women, desirable or not, won't even get on a dating app and use it responsibly. They see it as beneath them, "not socially acceptable", as if finding your match and starting a family is a game you gamble on. I don't know, maybe I'm just in a really shitty part of the country for trad girls. It's not impossible.
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     Microchimera (opphunter88@gleasonator.com)'s status on Monday, 21-Aug-2023 02:36:18 JST Microchimera

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     @c It's still effective for meeting autistic girls so Idc how bad it sucks.
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     Microchimera (opphunter88@gleasonator.com)'s status on Monday, 21-Aug-2023 02:36:19 JST Microchimera

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     @c There are lots of virgin femcel anons on X.
     
     This is the true reason Elon Musk bought it, to control the virgin supply.
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     mr bigot (c@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Monday, 21-Aug-2023 02:36:19 JST mr bigot

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     It's still weird to me that he renamed the site because I thought for a second you meant /x/. I don't trust Elon Musk one bit but I'm glad he's killing off the power of that authoritarian libshit tool.
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 21-Aug-2023 02:41:39 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     Dating apps are a psyop, just learn social skills and talk to ppl irl.
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     Griffith (griffith@5dollah.click)'s status on Monday, 21-Aug-2023 02:41:40 JST Griffith

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     @c @opphunter88 The problem is dating has become a game women can’t win. If we assume they’re not as sharp and assertive as men, then from that perspective we should consider that there are infinite men who will say or do almost anything to get access to their pussy and leave, and she has one shot to get it right because after that she’s not a virgin.
     A woman who takes herself seriously has a snowballs chance in hell unless she finds the one racist nazi who wants a trad marriage and to take her seriously.
     Then underneath that there could be other personality, social, or financial problems so she has to do a job she is not equipped to do.
     Like a lot of men become NEETs when faced with overwhelming odds, women also seclude themselves from the corrupt world in hope of staying pure, saving themselves for someone good. Maybe hoping this will all blow over.
     How to find them is up to us. I’ve heard social networking is key but that’s it’s own issue.
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     sandyx (sandyx@cdrom.tokyo)'s status on Monday, 21-Aug-2023 02:57:50 JST sandyx

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     @bot @Griffith @opphunter88 @c yeah i always thought a dating apps goal was to make bad matches on purpose to keep you on the platform looking for people and paying the subscription, its gotta be way better to meet people naturally so that you find people with real common interests beyond “likes music, movies, tv”

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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 21-Aug-2023 03:42:52 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     I’m js.. most women don’t need to use dating apps. So if that’s your only dating strategy then you’re probably shooting your self in the foot.
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     mr bigot (c@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Monday, 21-Aug-2023 03:42:53 JST mr bigot

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     >cold calls
     >sorry I have a boyfriend
     Yeah it's a great option. Really works.