@c Dating apps are bottom of the barrel and there are weird expectations on there, I don't like it. If you're going to meet girls online it makes more sense to do it in a normal social context.

That's how it works IRL, you don't just go up to a girl and say "I wish you to be my bride, here are my hobbies and my job."

There's a reason the only dating apps that stayed popular are the ones that emulated Grindr. It's only conducive to casual sex, which you're not going to be having if you're 1: a good person, or 2: below average in anything immediately perceptible.