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    Leaf Lord (leaflord@leafposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:20:30 JST Leaf Lord Leaf Lord
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    In what universe does a guy not pay the bill?
    In conversation Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:20:30 JST from leafposter.club permalink
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      Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:20:29 JST Fediverse Contractor Fediverse Contractor
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      It’s just a question lol. You’ve never split a bill tho?
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      Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:28:39 JST Fediverse Contractor Fediverse Contractor
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      He’s just salty because he’s boring and weird.
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      Leaf Lord (leaflord@leafposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:28:40 JST Leaf Lord Leaf Lord
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      My brother in Christ, you are the one who wanted to take that kind of woman out to dinner. You agreed to the terms.
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      VIc FooReeee (vicfury@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:28:41 JST VIc FooReeee VIc FooReeee
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      @Leaflord @bot The one where women decided to hold it over our heads to not. It’s moved from I’d like to buy you dinner sometime. To, you have to buy me this level of dinner if you want me to set near you and look at my phone the whole time.

      In conversation Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:28:41 JST permalink
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      Leaf Lord (leaflord@leafposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:33:34 JST Leaf Lord Leaf Lord
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      I have never split a bill.
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      KitlerIs6" (kitleris6@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:34:51 JST KitlerIs6" KitlerIs6"
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      Me either (I have never gone on a date with a woman in my life).
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      Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:34:51 JST Fediverse Contractor Fediverse Contractor
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      Why not?
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      diceynes (diceynes@cawfee.club)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:37:36 JST diceynes diceynes
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      @Leaflord @d0c40r0 @bot these are wise words about relationships
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      Doc (d0c40r0@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:37:37 JST Doc Doc
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      kinda gay but alright
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      Leaf Lord (leaflord@leafposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:37:37 JST Leaf Lord Leaf Lord
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      When a woman is in your company you are responsible for her.
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      Leaf Lord (leaflord@leafposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:37:38 JST Leaf Lord Leaf Lord
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      I also don't let women pay even when it's not a date.
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      Doc (d0c40r0@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:37:39 JST Doc Doc
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      I've never split a bill with a woman I'm on a date with

      split it with groups of friends but never a woman I'm on a date with
      In conversation Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:37:39 JST permalink
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      Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:37:45 JST Fediverse Contractor Fediverse Contractor
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      • diceynes
      That’s p smart actually.
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      Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:38:10 JST Fediverse Contractor Fediverse Contractor
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      • :catnoears: Mister Lister :catnoears:
      #grafmoment
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      :catnoears: Mister Lister :catnoears: (misterlister@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:38:11 JST :catnoears: Mister Lister :catnoears: :catnoears: Mister Lister :catnoears:
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      @d0c40r0 @Leaflord @bot It's not like there is any in this thread
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      Leaf Lord (leaflord@leafposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:38:11 JST Leaf Lord Leaf Lord
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      • :catnoears: Mister Lister :catnoears:
      I am a pretty girl irl
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      Doc (d0c40r0@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 01:38:12 JST Doc Doc
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      okay but also why should I care about women :face_with_raised_eyebrow_a:
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      KitlerIs6" (kitleris6@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 02:34:06 JST KitlerIs6" KitlerIs6"
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      I was shy as a teenager and didn't have the guts to ask my crush out and now that I'm older I don't meet new people very often IRL and none of the women I do meet interest me. I've had a couple of failed e-relationships but we never got to seeing eachother irl.

      I don't plan on staying in this country and I know asking someone to move to a foreign country is a huge ask and 9/10 times would just lead to heartbreak, so I'm not actively trying to find someone.
      In conversation Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 02:34:06 JST permalink
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      Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 02:34:06 JST Fediverse Contractor Fediverse Contractor
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      • KitlerIs6"
      My unsolicited advice is that you should try to go on a few dates, even just as practice. You have zero dating or relationship skills so if you actually do move to a new country with a language and culture you aren’t familiar with, it’s going to be that much more difficult for you otherwise.
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      KitlerIs6" (kitleris6@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 02:49:51 JST KitlerIs6" KitlerIs6"
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      I've thought about that, my two biggest hangups with that are I don't want to waste someone's time just for practice and I genuinely don't have a good way to meet someone here. I've been wanting to get more involved with the local Serbian community so maybe that's a first step.
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      Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 02:49:51 JST Fediverse Contractor Fediverse Contractor
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      I think you should force yourself to do it, I feel like you’re just putting up roadblocks for yourself as an excuse.
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      KitlerIs6" (kitleris6@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:27:10 JST KitlerIs6" KitlerIs6"
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      I'm not looking for paradise, I'm looking for a place where my kids can grow up without literal demons running their schools. The west is lost, and Eastern Europe is teetering on the edge of the same fate as ours but they at least seem to be still fighting for a better world.

      It's a gamble, no matter what I do. But that's simply the fate I was handed due to the negligence of past generations.
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      Leaf Lord (leaflord@leafposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:27:10 JST Leaf Lord Leaf Lord
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      • KitlerIs6"
      Have you ever been to eastern europe in a non-tourist capacity? Have you interacted with slavs irl and not online? Do you speak a slavic language?
      In conversation Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:27:10 JST permalink
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      Leaf Lord (leaflord@leafposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:27:11 JST Leaf Lord Leaf Lord
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      • KitlerIs6"
      I see
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      KitlerIs6" (kitleris6@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:27:12 JST KitlerIs6" KitlerIs6"
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      I'm thinking Serbia or Russia right now but I'm not 100% sure. I'm saving almost everything I earn right now so I'll have enough money to move and (legally) buy my way in.
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      Leaf Lord (leaflord@leafposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:27:13 JST Leaf Lord Leaf Lord
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      • KitlerIs6"
      Where are you gonna move to?
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      Leaf Lord (leaflord@leafposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:35:28 JST Leaf Lord Leaf Lord
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      • KitlerIs6"
      Many such cases
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      Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:35:54 JST Fediverse Contractor Fediverse Contractor
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      • KitlerIs6"
      You can literally just move together if it works out.
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      KitlerIs6" (kitleris6@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:35:55 JST KitlerIs6" KitlerIs6"
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      I don't want to develop feelings for someone who I can't be with because of conflicting life plans.
      In conversation Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:35:55 JST permalink
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      KitlerIs6" (kitleris6@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:40:46 JST KitlerIs6" KitlerIs6"
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      That's definitely something I plan to do before I move. It's still a couple of years before I'll be able to think about moving there and I plan to visit at least once before then.
      In conversation Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:40:46 JST permalink
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      Leaf Lord (leaflord@leafposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:40:46 JST Leaf Lord Leaf Lord
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      When you visit. Don't do it as a tourist. Actually live among the locals. Budget like a local. Immerse yourself into the actual local condition. A lot of people visit a place, think it's all coolios then move there and realize there is a huge difference between the tourist experience and the resident experience.

      That being said. I support your call to adventure. We live in a time of change and movement. Fortunes can be made and lost. Be a knight errant in a world of slaves and serfs.
      In conversation Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:40:46 JST permalink
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      Leaf Lord (leaflord@leafposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:40:47 JST Leaf Lord Leaf Lord
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      Expats are not your average member of a population. I highly recommend that you go there before pulling the trigger.
      Especially if you aren't a well travelled person in general. Moving to another country succesfully takes a certain level of finesse
      In conversation Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:40:47 JST permalink
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      KitlerIs6" (kitleris6@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:40:48 JST KitlerIs6" KitlerIs6"
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      There's a Serbian church in my state and I went to a cultural event they had once. I was working on learning Serbian but I got busy with life. Planning on starting up again.

      I'm well aware of the fact that this is a reckless life plan btw.
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      Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:46:42 JST Fediverse Contractor Fediverse Contractor
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      I wouldn’t want to move to eastern Europe.
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      Parker Banks (parker@pl.psion.co)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:48:26 JST Parker Banks Parker Banks
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      @KitlerIs6 @Leaflord @bot Can figure enough of those out first date. Though I lucked out, (now) wife asked whether I want kids and how many first time we met.
      In conversation Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 04:48:26 JST permalink
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      Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 05:05:42 JST Fediverse Contractor Fediverse Contractor
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      • KitlerIs6"
      So how much money have you given to onlyfans girls?
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      Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 05:05:43 JST Mr. Bacon Mr. Bacon
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      Lol a lot of them are dumb tbf.

      It’s more so just to turn the tables. You can be selective and find like only Serbian ones and then they constantly message you.

      I’ve actually found some decent girls who I talk to offline still, but there are very few.

      I only mention it as it’s a good way to practice talking to women 😅. Probably won’t find a wife there, but it’s better than nothing…unless you spend all your money lol

      It’s good for learning to see through flirting, I will say that. Some of the girls are really good at manipulating men and once you talk to them for awhile you learn their tricks.
      In conversation Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 05:05:43 JST permalink
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      KitlerIs6" (kitleris6@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 05:05:44 JST KitlerIs6" KitlerIs6"
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      >Eastern European countries still like Americans so you’ll probably be able to talk to more attractive girls than you would be able to other wise.
      Not Serbia, which is why I like them 😜.

      Also I don't think you know me too well if you think I'd get along with onlyfans girls lmao
      In conversation Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 05:05:44 JST permalink
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      Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 05:05:45 JST Mr. Bacon Mr. Bacon
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      Unsolicited advice incoming:

      If you’re looking at moving out of the country, find a way to talk to girls in that country to become more familiar with the culture/language.

      Eastern European countries still like Americans so you’ll probably be able to talk to more attractive girls than you would be able to other wise.

      Try instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn, on here even I’ve found some Russians. Hot take, but OF is a pretty good option as well. Most of the international dating sites are scams so OF is cheaper than tinder/bumble and you’ll get women talking to you instead of constantly having to chase them. (But they probably just want your money so don’t be fooled, but it is good practice).

      Another note - if you do really want a relationship, getting over feeling like a burden you know? Like go after it. No one is going to meet your needs for you, you have to aggressively go after something you want.

      😅 hope something I said was helpful. 😎
      In conversation Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 05:05:45 JST permalink
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      Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 05:11:22 JST Fediverse Contractor Fediverse Contractor
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      Maybe if there’s an established relationship and you make a reasonable case for it. It’s a hard sell though lol.
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      KitlerIs6" (kitleris6@seal.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 05:11:23 JST KitlerIs6" KitlerIs6"
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      And you think most women would?
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      diceynes (diceynes@cawfee.club)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 05:20:32 JST diceynes diceynes
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      @Leaflord @d0c40r0 @bot
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      Leaf Lord (leaflord@leafposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 05:20:33 JST Leaf Lord Leaf Lord
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      Do not post this shitskin at me.
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      Leaf Lord (leaflord@leafposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 18-Jul-2023 05:48:13 JST Leaf Lord Leaf Lord
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      It's not bad if you are loaded, but then everywhere is good if you are loaded
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