I just left the funeral of some poor sap i didn't know. I made sure to tell everyone there I didn't know the deceased and how I really don't care for funerals. :hhhhh: Literally the same thing as commenting on edrama. Literally the same. :animu_mask:
Hey guy This all started when someone threw my wife being dead in my face. The only reason I don't them irl is lack of ability. Sometimes shit is serious, even if it's on a screen
So the description of drama is correct for the majority. It is internet drama...
1) I can't even tell you what happened 2) If I don't know what happened it certainly doesn't concern me 3) I don't know what I am looking at or talking about, refer to 1
Then it's really easy to just not comment because the person who takes their love seriously isn't going to be flattered by you treating them dismissively.
Do you show up at random funerals to tell people "wow this really doesn't concern me and I don't care"
Nicecrew and fedi there are a few people I follow and enjoy seeing post. I don't follow everyone to the point of stalking but when I am on and see them post, I generally enjoy it. I don't understand what you are trying to push?
I enjoyed hussy and her posts, I don't know exactly what happened and I am sad to see her nuke her account again.
I hate the implication that any sort of interpersonal altercation needs to be dismissed out of hand as "drama"
Sometimes friends fuck up and cross lines. To such a degree that they cease being friends. I think that's why breakups and divorces exist lol
If it seems frivolous to you it's either because 1. It actually doesn't matter 2. It doesn't concern you or 3. You don't know what you're looking at or talking about
And I'm really really trying not to make a whole thing of this again because I'm done with it, but the issue at the root here is
Real things happened and real lines were crossed. Huss took it seriously and was given grief for it. She gets pissed and leaves and the comments are "edrama" which completely prove her point and justify her frustration.
I don't even fucking go to funerals... fuck all that. We didn't have one for my mother or father. I don't want one.. all those fat fucks wanting a free lunch can kiss my ass.
Look. People are gonna comment on arguments happening publicly on the fedi. They're gonna comment on literally everything.
If its too much, delete and walk away like Huss. She did the right thing if its causing that much irl disruption. I'll miss her but good for her if the fedi is that big of a headache.
You're just making excuses for shitbags because it doesn't affect you personally and you're annoyed that you saw a disruption in your nigger meme posts
Lol. I dont even know what happened and honestly I really don't care.
But if you're gonna spread misery and guilt across threads everytime someone mentions that Huss deleted over edrama then it kinda means you're being a bit of a shitbag.
Seriously. Log off for a while and do something other than social media. I do it all the time and its really great and refreshing. I promise you'll like it.
Or don't. You're grown so you can do what you want. Just some friendly advice.
I'm good without the tutorial thanks, this autist is just talking out of his fucking ass and I'm amused by it.
You either know something, or you don't. Asserting you don't know something is fine, but then throwing out "Lol it's nothing" is pointless. You've already undermined everything you have to say.
Idk what plat means by his comments But my comment was no biggie imo
Alot of times if I was getting shit from somebody hussy would pop up and make a joke and try to make light of things and I appreciated that What I say was not to be taken personally to anyone, especially not hussy
I think it's possible that the whole thing could have been a misunderstanding? I think electronic communication is difficult. It is dehumanizing, but also it's super easy to misunderstand one another, then talk past each other, emotions flare, people get defensive and then it turns into something it wasn't initially. I could be wrong, it wouldn't be the first time but I have definitely gotten into fights online that later after cooling down and talking about it, you realize that you both misinterpreted the other.
Oh right lol, yeah this one seems like more than some e-drama to just touch grass and laugh off from what I've seen. It isn't just based on some disconnected online shit at the very least.
Plat we all have trials and we all struggle. But fuck man its the internet, and its an OPEN internet on fedi. If you want to have a serious conversation with someone on a personal level you might have been better of with a direct message.
Get out and work on IRL social skills, go meet a new woman. I don't know the timeline, but at some point you have to move on.
It's called having some common courtesy. How would you feel if someone you loved passed away recently, and someone made jokes before telling you "dude, get over it. It's not like it's real."
Making these jokes at Plat. "Dude, just get over it." That's his wife you're talking about. What the fuck? Would you say that shit to someone's face? It doesn't matter if we're online or not. What the Hell?
People are disgusting and they lack empathy. I'm so sorry for plat and his loss. I know that his wife is with the Lord. Grief affects everyone differently. Some people shut down, others lash out. It's completely understandable and human. You don't just get over the death of a loved one. My cousin died when I was 17. I'm 34 and I am still not "over it," that's not how it works. I understand, I can't imagine how he feels but I also don't want people fighting when ultimately we should all be on the same side.