People are disgusting and they lack empathy. I'm so sorry for plat and his loss. I know that his wife is with the Lord. Grief affects everyone differently. Some people shut down, others lash out. It's completely understandable and human. You don't just get over the death of a loved one. My cousin died when I was 17. I'm 34 and I am still not "over it," that's not how it works. I understand, I can't imagine how he feels but I also don't want people fighting when ultimately we should all be on the same side.