@boburtle 90% of the time "why didn't he ask?" can be answered with "it's not important (right now)"
> If anything is emotional labor its being peppered with questions when you have a loved one in the hospital.
I've genuinely gone off on a manager for this. My little brother was in the hospital, extremely sick with a high fever, and my manager is like "hey we know it's your day off" and I genuinely told him to go fuck off because I'm "spending" my "day off" in the hospital with my baby brother.