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   Christmassy Blake ☃️🎄🎁 (picandor@gameliberty.club)'s status on Wednesday, 03-Apr-2024 22:36:44 JST Christmassy Blake ☃️🎄🎁

   I feel like this video needs to be made more obvious because it's not that we don't care, it's that "they didn't tell us, so it can't really be that important right now."

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     LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 (lukealmighty@gameliberty.club)'s status on Wednesday, 03-Apr-2024 22:36:42 JST LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿

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     @picandor
     Oh, Dan is on his way to hospital?
     Would you mind spending 2 hours talking to me over the phone, instead of helping to NOT DIE? I really need to know what color shoes is he wearing while he is bleeding out.

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     LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 (lukealmighty@gameliberty.club)'s status on Wednesday, 03-Apr-2024 22:41:14 JST LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿

     @picandor
     Sometimes, even not talking is important.

     My grandpa was an asshole. And I've noticed, that whenever I asked, my dad was visibly uncomfortable. So I waited 20 years to ask about more details, since lately, my dad seemed finally fine to talk about it.

     I will not open his wounds just because I am curious.

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     LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 (lukealmighty@gameliberty.club)'s status on Wednesday, 03-Apr-2024 22:50:30 JST LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿

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     @picandor
     BTW, while I seriously don't like most "women MRAs" because almost none of them offer any perspective or understanding, this girl is my favorite, since she truly offers something fresh.

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     LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 (lukealmighty@gameliberty.club)'s status on Wednesday, 03-Apr-2024 22:52:18 JST LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿

     @picandor
     Exactly.
     It isn't offensive, but it absolutely is productive :D

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     Christmassy Blake ☃️🎄🎁 (picandor@gameliberty.club)'s status on Thursday, 04-Apr-2024 09:26:26 JST Christmassy Blake ☃️🎄🎁

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     @boburtle 90% of the time "why didn't he ask?" can be answered with "it's not important (right now)"

     > If anything is emotional labor its being peppered with questions when you have a loved one in the hospital.

     I've genuinely gone off on a manager for this. My little brother was in the hospital, extremely sick with a high fever, and my manager is like "hey we know it's your day off" and I genuinely told him to go fuck off because I'm "spending" my "day off" in the hospital with my baby brother.

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     boburtle (boburtle@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 04-Apr-2024 09:26:27 JST boburtle

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     @picandor Asking someone those types of questions when something serious happened is an imposition. If they need to tell you something, they will. Funny enough, the women that rage at men for not asking questions during the phone call, are the same exact women that rage about the "emotional labor" that's put on them. If anything is emotional labor its being peppered with questions when you have a loved one in the hospital.
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