@Hoss@Tony@Alex_Fog@BowsacNoodle@ForbiddenDreamer@TimeSpent@sj_zero moving back here was crazy because i forgot just how chunky the locks are. double very thick doors two types of keys, with judging by the keys a fair amount of pins, have to turn like 3-4 times around per door in the much more dangerous than here and definitely worse than average there part of the states i lived in this was just like a thin door with very very shitty lock standard and like a single term bolt with just as weak a lock which i kid you not broke off at one point
genuinelly what the fuck is wrong with the american markets? atleast it makes for funny videos when they are trying to ram the door down of the one guy with a strong door and lock
@Hoss@Tony@Alex_Fog@BowsacNoodle@ForbiddenDreamer@TimeSpent that's that reputation but its honestly quite exaggerated, atleast in self referring patients that is which should be the norm. still more than normal though. that's cbt the default though, which while it might help other things is probably barely gonna do jack shit to bpd. you need dbt therapy, and that actually proves effective and hasn't shown any real signs of such a problem with bpd patients. i dont think either make it WORSE though, and the stigma definitely harms people from getting good treatment thus prolonging the shit they cause to everybody
@BowsacNoodle@Tony@Alex_Fog@ForbiddenDreamer@TimeSpent@Hoss dialectical behaviour therapy. basically, teaching self control and emotional regulation and shit in a way that actually applies to people with extreme emotions and instability and mood swings and shit like that. cuz ilke the emotions are too strong for the usual development to keep them under control basically. its like the only treatment that actually helps that shit and its generally foudn to be quite effective, but it can be hard to find and most will never recieve it. i've had a very limited amoutn of it and it even helped my bpd a lot compared to what it used to be personalyl, so i imagine going full in really does help as much as they claim. technically it can apply to a few things but its almost exclusively a tailor made treatment for bpd.
though i'm sure a lot of manic bpd bitches would go wild for crazy shit like being chained to the radiator
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