Notices by brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz), page 2
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Friday, 06-Dec-2024 11:37:26 JST brenda
@Owl If not wanting to spend the rest of my life being an indentured servant to an adult toddler and his (or her) demonspawn and not wanting to be comatose with a gigantic hospital bill because he (or she) had a temper tantrum makes me stupid, then I'll happily take the short bus every day. -
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Friday, 06-Dec-2024 11:37:25 JST brenda
@Owl Uh huh sure. Don't say I didn't warn you. -
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Friday, 06-Dec-2024 11:37:25 JST brenda
@Owl Yeah yeah yeah. I know it's very easy to ally yourself with men when they treat you well because they gain something from you. But wait 15 years when you're not as young, attractive, and agreeable as you are now and they're no longer telling you you're special and better than all the other bitter harpies.
Aligning yourself with men's power will make you believe that their power will accrue to you. It won't. I just hope for your sake you won't get hit too hard by the shock. Very unfortunate that not all women are lucky enough to have this realization as young as I did. -
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Friday, 06-Dec-2024 11:37:24 JST brenda
@Owl You have some really weird takes. I have said many times I don't even hate men and just because I don't want to get married doesn't mean I have to hate them. I have men I am friendly with. I have a decent relationship with my father, brother, grandfather etc. I've simply seen the deplorable shit men do when they think they have power and I am not willing to repeat it again. Even if that means not giving "good men" a chance. I don't hate men, I hate what they are capable of and what enough of them choose to do. I think they do have the potential to not be awful and to collaborate with women to make the world a better place but that it's not gonna happen anytime soon.
So in the event that the police vanish, I am much happier being killed swiftly. -
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Friday, 06-Dec-2024 11:37:23 JST brenda
@Owl I hate sex and don't wish to be pregnant but if it happened I would not have an abortion. I do not see abortion as a good thing. Necessary sometimes maybe but not good.
But have you ever considered that not all women who have one are "irresponsible whores?" What if she was raped or coerced/threatened into sex like my past partners did to me? It's not always just the woman's fault. The abortion problem is not going to be resolved unless men are told to keep it in their pants as much as women are told to not spread their legs. If there is an unplanned pregnancy or another issue resulting from sex then both parties are at fault (presuming it was entirely consensual) -
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Friday, 06-Dec-2024 11:37:23 JST brenda
@Owl >Wow men are responsible for everything bad in the history of the whole world ten minutes ago eeeuuuuuggggggfgh
They are. Doesn't mean that change can't happen.
>I'm never chancing being hurt again and taking some agency for myself
Correct.
>Why do you think I hate and have an unhealthy relationship with men?
All I said was that I don't want to get married and that I don't have to be grateful to men for creating the shit world we live in. I would be grateful to them if they decided to finally put an end to all of the deplorable shit that they let each other get away with. They definitely can do that. Will they is another question. That's why women need to stay away and let them figure it out by themselves. -
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Friday, 06-Dec-2024 11:37:21 JST brenda
@Owl Just tell me how if a woman gets pregnant because she's an "irresponsible whore" how is the man absolved from all responsibility? Did she rape him? Did he not choose to have sex with her? Are men infants who can't be blamed for their actions because they don't know any better? -
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Friday, 06-Dec-2024 11:37:20 JST brenda
@Owl Nice avoiding the question. -
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Friday, 06-Dec-2024 11:37:19 JST brenda
@Owl So provided the encounter was completely consensual albeit raw, the man and the woman are both irresponsible retards. OK. Good. Perfectly acceptable take.
Because men can't be both the powerful, visonary giants who built air conditioning, buildings, transportation and other cool shit but also adult children with no agency who only make terrible choices because women make them. -
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Friday, 06-Dec-2024 11:37:19 JST brenda
@Owl You refuse to come up with an answer because you can't think of anything that wouldn't acknowledge that men are capable of wrongdoing. You refuse to acknowledge it. You want women to be at fault for everything in any given situation.
No surprises there. -
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Friday, 06-Dec-2024 11:37:18 JST brenda
@Owl Cool. Don't place all of the onus on the woman, however "slutty" she may be. She's an idiot too but the man is also perfectly capable of choosing not to have sex. -
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Friday, 06-Dec-2024 11:37:17 JST brenda
@Owl That's what I'm saying. *both* of them are responsible for the outcome. Men and NLOGs like you often want to say that the woman is the only one responsible for the outcome because women have to be at fault for all poor choices ever made. -
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Friday, 06-Dec-2024 04:31:07 JST brenda
One of the premiere reasons to not get married to men. If you do they are *extremely* likely to kill you. It's unfortunate that so many women aren't going to realize that until it's too late. -
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Thursday, 05-Dec-2024 05:22:36 JST brenda
I love broccoli. People who don't like it are missing out -
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Tuesday, 03-Dec-2024 11:19:55 JST brenda
@sergeantcat @LukeAlmighty @tomie There are some men who get off on doing it raw and will not entertain the idea of alternatives. I know, not all men, but not using contraceptives is not *just* something women will do.
I'm not the biggest fan of abortion myself. But in a world where men are not only unable to keep it in their pants, but also adamantly refuse to and gaslight women to make them think it's their fault, I see it as a necessary evil. If I got pregnant I severely doubt I would have an abortion myself, but I find sex to be massively overrated so probably not gonna happen.
I know this may not be what men want to hear, but in order to resolve the abortion problem, they have to abstain from sex as much as they want women to. -
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Tuesday, 03-Dec-2024 09:46:45 JST brenda
@sergeantcat @LukeAlmighty @tomie Because men cry and beg and threaten until they give in. If they don't give in they are a selfish bitch who won't give a nice guy a chance. If they do they are a slut and the man is absolved from all responsibility even though the sex was more than likely what he wanted, not her. -
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Tuesday, 03-Dec-2024 09:16:56 JST brenda
@tomie @LukeAlmighty Men bitch and moan about muh killing babies but never realize that there would't be much of a need for abortions if they didn't rape women or coerce/threaten them into sex.
They will never want to address the root cause because that would involve them not having access to women and their bodies whenever they want. -
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Tuesday, 26-Nov-2024 08:38:39 JST brenda
@ninafromcanadaeh @KeepTakingTheSoma If you ask scrotes on the fediverse women *still* need to have a husband and kids by 30. Because birthing and mothering and being property that the husband finds worthy of owning is all women are made for. Gag me! -
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Nov-2024 11:56:36 JST brenda
@elftummy @TrevorGoodchild Based on how men feel about women's bodies, I highly doubt this is something you actually believe. -
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brenda (brendamccann@spinster.xyz)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Nov-2024 05:33:57 JST brenda
All poast users are pedophiles.
All anime fans are pedophiles.
All men are pedophiles or pedophiles in denial.
All men deserve to die.
There are no exceptions.
Thank you.