Notices by terra - jolly bitch (terraboops@girlcock.club), page 5

for #feminizationfriday today i am gonna talk about pissing. thoughts on bathroom segregation, how i felt about it before and after starting transition, how i feel about it now, as well as some thoughts on the politics of pissing.

i speak solely of my own experiences and my thoughts; they're imperfect and anecdotal. if your experiences don't line up with mine, that's totally chill - please share your experience! i wanna hear about it.

please remember that you & only you know if you are trans ❤️

okay let's talk about peeing 🍋

so, first of all: why are bathrooms even segregated? i get the urinal aspect, but that could easily be solved with some dividers for urinal users only.

legislative requirements aside, the arguments people use to justify segregation of bathrooms by sex are all rooted in heteropatriarchy.

like, if men are so horrible they cannot be trusted to be around women in private - that's a problem that needs solving. segregation only ignores it.

#feminizationfriday

me seeing puppy getting flirted with a bunch on fedi

the best part of waking up is girldick in your notifications

@ariadne

my dog just farted 🌬️

here's what i learned about cloud native architecture 🏗️

#fediblock this dork lmao

@bulma@parcero.bond https://parcero.bond/objects/e3fc143b-11f6-4478-86f4-b3332ea28ff8

@NeonPurpleStar

gonna fucking destroy some chores now

i find hilarious people who condemn Putin and laude Xi Jinping

@lykrast

@HauntedOwlbear interesting...

i haven't seen anything like that. i remember seeing stuff about the spring equinox last week, though.

it seems to me that if people are celebrating the cycles of nature it doesn't matter so much if they are being anthropologically accurate so much as it matters whether they're harmlessly connecting their lives to the cycles of the earth in meaningful ways that bring them joy.

so i am curious about the harms caused by these bad takes!

@HauntedOwlbear where

every Friday i write about trans issues in extreme detail with no filter and in the way that most authentically represents my experience.

i write some seriously intimate shit about my trans experience.

... and the only time i get fucked up replies is when i interact with posts from black trans women.

fedi racism is so real and it's so fucked up.

i have written in detail about sissy porn with no fucked up replies

... but i write one thing about trans kids in reply to a black woman and suddenly my mentions are full of 4chan shit

no matter how many times i type "gay for you" my autocomplete still wants to complete "gay for" with "pay" 🥲

i have never typed or used that phrase before and i find it offensive ... i grew up with people who said stuff like this all the time as a way to police each other's sexuality.

this is such a subtle way that heteronormativity and homophobia is reinforced by ML integration into technology.

@NeonPurpleStar thanks sweetpea ✨

i am so gaaaaay

for so long... like 30 (+/-5) years i was terrified of being gay... i have a wide array of trauma, starting with one really horrifying incident, that really jackhammered into me that being gay would NOT be okay.

... but actually it's been the best thing that ever happened to me by a wide margin.

everything makes sense.

also, i'm not just okay at being gay -- i am GREAT at being gay!

so many lies. this world is just layers of lies.

it's time for another #feminizationfriday

today i'll be talking about labels, shamelessness, and not being a cop.

i try always to talk only of my own experience. my perspective is my own - you and i are not the same person and that's good actually! the world needs all kinds of people :)

i am never here to tell you that you're more or less trans or that i know objectively how things should be. only you know what's right for you!