Notices by Wuzzy (wuzzy@cyberplace.social), page 2

@PaulaToThePeople When there is no consent or consent was violated. Examples:

* You said "no".
* Your body language clearly signalled rejection
* You said the safe word yet it continued
* You said "yes" but were threatened, trapped, in danger, etc.
* You gave consent at first but revoked it during the act but it continued anyway against your will
* When it was ambigious/unclear. In that case, it should be assumed as "no consent" to be safe

@PaulaToThePeople This doesn't make sense. If I don't want sex (I never want sex), I can't say yes and also "mean it". I clearly did not mean it in this situation, since I didn't want sex.

And no, having sex with people against their will is never OK. I am the last one who would defend rape culture; I would only harm myself.

I mostly agree with you; all I'm saying is that I view as consent as an "all-or-nothing" (the default being "nothing") rather than a "spectrum".

@PaulaToThePeople You literally said "Rape and sex are a spectrum." and I strongly disagree with that sentence specifically.

I *do* agree with that it takes more than a simple "yes" for proper consent tho.

@PaulaToThePeople If sex and rape are a spectrum that would have terrible implications.

I think there should be a hard red line when it's becoming rape and that red line is called "consent". I have no idea how there could be a "spectrum" of consent. Either you have it, or you don't. A "half consent" does not exist. A "consent spectrum" sounds like a great way for rapists to argue themselves out by misinterpreting words.

@feditips @MastodonEngineering Unfortunately, Crowdin is proprietary software so that's a huge downside. 👎

Free software should be also developed by free software tools.

@feditips Mastodon is not a server.

If I had a #Twitter account, I could get #BANNED for defending the use of the words #cis and #cisgender (which just means "not #transgender"). And I'm cis myself. 🤦

In other words #ElonMusk may have accidentally declared war on 99% of the population, including himself. 🤣

#fail #cringe #BirdSite #VogelRIP #bigotry #CisIsNotASlur

@ghast Very pro-freedom of you for being in favor of literally banning completely harmless words because reasons.

@ghast
I also used to think #transphobia is fake but this is only because mainstream media doesn't give you the full picture. Once I started to listen to trans people more and more, I realized my #delusion.

Here's an introduction to transphobia:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yCxqdhZkxCo

#Genocide #denial is not harmless:

https://www.facinghistory.org/resource-library/genocide-denied

Note how the article says the state tried to not only hide the truth but also to punish those who spoke it.