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@PaulaToThePeople This doesn't make sense. If I don't want sex (I never want sex), I can't say yes and also "mean it". I clearly did not mean it in this situation, since I didn't want sex.

And no, having sex with people against their will is never OK. I am the last one who would defend rape culture; I would only harm myself.

I mostly agree with you; all I'm saying is that I view as consent as an "all-or-nothing" (the default being "nothing") rather than a "spectrum".