2/ For completeness, as it's easy to miss in Kent's long post:
Kent refuses to send a public apology for a remark to a mm developer that lead to the escalation to the COC. Search for "you should probably send him an apology" in his Patreon post to find a good place to start.
Also note that Kent resurrected the #LKML thread with the remark yesterday; new messages start here: https://lore.kernel.org/all/vvulqfvftctokjzy3ookgmx2ja73uuekvby3xcc2quvptudw7e@7qj4gyaw2zfo/t/#u