@meghanemurphy He's not entirely wrong. We can't deny that there are many women in the mainstream calling themselves feminists who include men in the category women, think sex work is work, dictate that we have to be left wing to be allowed to speak, and like to think that women are the same as men in every metric. I've seen them on twatter, on TV etc. As you said, third-wave feminism screwed up.
To be honest, I'm not at all surprised that so many men think this genderwoo mess is the fault of women. It is the fault of some women. As you so rightly say, it is primarily the fault of porn-addled men who cannot go through life without their dicks being the centre of the universe. But we cannot deny that so many women, especially in academia, media and politics enabled them.
There is and will always be no shortage of men who blame all the evils of the world on women and no shortage of women who will play *pick me* and shit on other women for prestige.