I was talking about online communities, really, because that's where I've had most success. like other minorities, it's not so easy to find enough of us in a single location, but the internet allows us to find each other, regardless of distance, and form communties

I guess building an overlay society will involve more than just exchanging ideas online. enabling us to avoid relying on nonfree impositions by third parties, making our overlay society self-sufficient, will involve getting all sorts of services and trades and whatnot provided by community members in ways that we can deal with. that may take time, but every step in that direction helps IMHO