IcooIey (icooiey@mastodon.green)'s status on Thursday, 14-Nov-2024 02:16:36 JST

@fifilamoura @mekkaokereke
This also I think speaks to a problem women have of needing to be peace makers and perceived as nice. That’s a survival tactic, but needs context and nuance. My child took me to task for being rude to someone in public and I had to explain that their actions did not justify civility on my part and it was a disservice to others not to call them to account. Yes, being nice would be the easier, safer path. But not the right one.