@hrefna I'm sure you're right, the ones that "chose" not to show up, probably didn't think of that, they probably didn't realize, and if it makes you feel better to think so, I am sincerely all for it because whether you "choose" to see what you're asserting is inherently obvious or not I hope for whatever comfort you can gain right now. But, if they understand what you're saying, why might they still be making that choice, and how do we hold power to account, instead of them